Rapture - Ready to make a change. - Page 3

pleaser · 08-27-2005, 04:27 AM

That problem you are having is in your mind and that is where you'll find the real solution. It helps if you can accept that it is OK to get soft, do something else for a while (oral?) and get back to it when you can. Also, just try to enjoy the sensations in the moment without focusing on what you are doing or where you are trying to get. Focus on how nice it is to be with your partner, rather than thinking about your own performance. I've had similar problems myself, and while the problem is in the mind some Viagra or similar can help get you through the feeling that it is destined to happen again. I had a time when it was happening, and each time seemed to be worse than the time before because I was expecting it, waiting for it, and getting anxiety about it. The little pill made me feel like it WASN'T going to happen, and that helped break the cycle.

Rapture · 12-13-2005, 04:51 PM

Hey all,

Just got finished a busy semester of college, I know I've been away but I'm still stickin to routine. I had to drop the jelqing for the semester due to lack of time but I've stuck with the stretches. I don't want to measure yet but my lil buddy certainly hangs alot longer these days. I also ordered a PM. It was supposed to ship a month ago (11/14/05) but it still hasn't arrived yet. I hope the guy at customs isnt trying it out

. I'm up here in Canada so maybe thats the reason for delay, but my PJ came very quickly when I ordered it. Any idea if I should contact or just wait it out?
Happy Holidays!

P.S. Thanks for the Viagra solution pleaser. I've heard it from others also so I think I'll try it out now that I have some time over the holidays.

-B

Rapture · 01-09-2006, 01:15 AM

Happy belated New Year everyone!

Well, I sent an email and they got back to me with the reason for my wait. Apparently they were upgrading the quality of the PM unit so that was fine by me. That was after I wrote the last post and what do ya know, the PM just arrived last thursday. Looks like a very well made device. I'll be starting to use it after my stretches from now on and try to get at least 3 hours out of it a day.

I'm very excited to try it out and see how it feels. If it's uncomfortable I will probably try out the AutoEXT replacement silicone head. Anyone heard anything about this? Its very hard to find a review on this and other forums.
Thanks again for everyones help.

-B