Does Size Matter . . . . . . . . . . - Page 5

Betterman · 03-07-2008, 10:39 AM

I would still do kegels and damp towel pull-ups. I would also do minimal stretches and jelqing, which doesn't take but a few minutes. I'm about to this point. Mi goals almost met. Just 1/2" of girth to go. 8x6 coming up.

southern tz · 03-10-2008, 03:59 AM

What if you had been doing all these exercises and you got your unit much bigger, but then started dating the "woman of your dreams" who told you that you were so big you were hurting her when y'all had sex? Would you stop doing your exercises completely? Would you try to "reduce" a little so you didn't hurt her?

("The woman of your dreams" means she is NOT a one-night stand. She is someone you have been going out with for a while and she is everything you are looking for in a woman. She is actually so wonderful you are strongly considering marrying her.)

bozoballz · 03-10-2008, 05:12 AM

^I think her pussy would become accustomed to the size after a while. I mean... I can't speak from experience here. However if a baby can come out of the vagina I would think it can probably accommodate. Being an attentive lover would make all the difference.

I have a ways to go to have this problem.

But to answer the questions to this hypothetical situation... I'd probably stop if I was large enough to be hurting girls. I don't think theres much to be done to reduce it but it would probably reduce a little on its own after a while.

10 · 03-10-2008, 05:45 AM

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Originally Posted by bozoballz

^I think her pussy would become accustomed to the size after a while. I mean... I can't speak from experience here. However if a baby can come out of the vagina I would think it can probably accommodate. Being an attentive lover would make all the difference.

I have a ways to go to have this problem.

But to answer the questions to this hypothetical situation... I'd probably stop if I was large enough to be hurting girls. I don't think theres much to be done to reduce it but it would probably reduce a little on its own after a while.

Yes, babies do come out of that little honey hole so you wouldn't think that a large penis would hurt but I guess it's like using a really expensive power drill. If you don't know how to use it properly, you can cause damage.......

sikdogg · 03-10-2008, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by southern tz

What if you had been doing all these exercises and you got your unit much bigger, but then started dating the "woman of your dreams" who told you that you were so big you were hurting her when y'all had sex? Would you stop doing your exercises completely? Would you try to "reduce" a little so you didn't hurt her?

("The woman of your dreams" means she is NOT a one-night stand. She is someone you have been going out with for a while and she is everything you are looking for in a woman. She is actually so wonderful you are strongly considering marrying her.)

Toward the end of our relationship, my wife actually asked me to stop all PE because of this very reason...

When we had sex she said she was barely able to take it and if she wasn't FULLY warmed up or i got too "vigorous" then it would hurt too much that we had to stop.

Technique also played a big factor in her pleasure... i had to change my style a little and always be aware of how hard and deep i was going into her. But in the end, i don't think i was too big as much as she just prolly had a smaller vagina cuz none of the women i've been with since i started dating have complained... in fact, it's just the opposite where they are complementing me on my size and tell me how they really like it.

When i wife asked me to stop, I did stop PE for a while but now that i'm moving on... i've started again and also starting to see gains again.

She doesn't know that i've started PE again and the few times that we've gotten together and had sex, she really enjoyed it. She tells me that the day after we have sex, she always feels sore like her muscles were worked out. She felt this even though she was having plenty of sex with her current bf who she said wasn't nearly as big as me...

The part where i was much bigger than her bf made me feel good, but the part about her having sex with another guy kinda sucked...

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Originally Posted by bozoballz

^I think her pussy would become accustomed to the size after a while. I mean... I can't speak from experience here. However if a baby can come out of the vagina I would think it can probably accommodate. Being an attentive lover would make all the difference.

I have a ways to go to have this problem.

But to answer the questions to this hypothetical situation... I'd probably stop if I was large enough to be hurting girls. I don't think theres much to be done to reduce it but it would probably reduce a little on its own after a while.

Hormones released during pregnancy causes the vagina to expand... so yes a baby can fit thru a vagina but only during pregnancy... it isn't capable of passing anything near the size of a baby all the time.

10 · 03-10-2008, 06:23 PM

So dogg, let me get this straight, you and your wife split up but continue to hook up for booty calls? Wow. I'm thinkin' maybe you two just needed some time apart? And remember, she may be having sex with her current bf but you're also banging other chicks..........

I've never had any desire to hook up with my ex, even if just for sex. Not now, not ever. Although, I'd LOVE to see the expression on her face when she felt the presence of my new, much bigger dick. That would truly be priceless.........:)

sikdogg · 03-10-2008, 06:54 PM

Well, we don't intentionally hook up for booty calls but since my daughter lives with me, my ex visits her once or twice a week. During those visits we often talk and spend some one-on-one time together to talk... this often leads to sex, especially if i press the issue. Attraction was NOT a reason that we separated... it was the fact that we drifted apart and was no longer able to connect emotionally. I think we have a better relationship when we are separated than when we were together... sex between us has been real good since we've been apart. She seems to really like my size now more than she ever did before (maybe because she knows that other women like it)... and her orgasms are super intense.

What is hard and tough to overcome right now is the fact that we both have issues with the other dating or "being" with other people...

bozoballz · 03-11-2008, 03:43 AM

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What is hard and tough to overcome right now is the fact that we both have issues with the other dating or "being" with other people...

The only thing I could suggest is don't talk about the "others" with each other. Make some kind of a pact or something where you spare each others feelings by not talking about other lovers since the only thing it does is cause bad feelings. Then you can focus more solely on each other when together.

I guess you can call it the "don't ask, don't tell" clause.

sikdogg · 03-11-2008, 04:21 AM

Great suggestion but we already talked it out and now we're having a hard time getting the image of us being with others having sex without us out of our heads... As alot of oldtimers here know, we were swingers so the sex part is not so bad for us as the fact that we did it behind the other person's back without the other's knowledge or consent. For us that is where the violation and broken trust exists not in the sex...

Betterman · 03-11-2008, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by southern tz

What if you had been doing all these exercises and you got your unit much bigger, but then started dating the "woman of your dreams" who told you that you were so big you were hurting her when y'all had sex? Would you stop doing your exercises completely? Would you try to "reduce" a little so you didn't hurt her?

("The woman of your dreams" means she is NOT a one-night stand. She is someone you have been going out with for a while and she is everything you are looking for in a woman. She is actually so wonderful you are strongly considering marrying her.)

This scenario shouldn't be a problem. If you stop all P.E. activites completely you do have slight gain loss. Probably 3/8" length - 1/4" girth. So if the issue was raised. You would end up being a perfect fit.

bozoballz · 03-11-2008, 04:15 PM

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Great suggestion but we already talked it out and now we're having a hard time getting the image of us being with others having sex without us out of our heads... As alot of oldtimers here know, we were swingers so the sex part is not so bad for us as the fact that we did it behind the other person's back without the other's knowledge or consent. For us that is where the violation and broken trust exists not in the sex...

It probably still hurts cause the wounds are still fresh. Give it some time and you'll both feel better so long as you don't keep opening the wounds by talking about other lovers. I don't know cans from beans but I bet you and your wife still have some love and if you carry on in a considerate manner with these issues things should be alright. Good luck dogg.

happy stud · 03-12-2008, 12:16 PM

And in the meantime sikdogg keep on inventing new sex positions with some of that new pussy your getting.

earlybroncogirl · 03-12-2008, 06:15 PM

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And in the meantime sikdogg keep on inventing new sex positions with some of that new pussy your getting.

I like the way you think...

JonPop · 03-12-2008, 09:57 PM

And, I like the way YOU think. How about telling us a little bit about yourself.
Physical characteristics, birthday (month and day.) and how you found our little house here. I can tell, you are not new to this. Cheeky Cherry per chance?

10 · 03-12-2008, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by JonPop

And, I like the way YOU think. How about telling us a little bit about yourself.
Physical characteristics, birthday (month and day.) and how you found our little house here. I can tell, you are not new to this. Cheeky Cherry per chance?

"Cheeky Cherry"..............wtf???

sikdogg · 03-13-2008, 06:23 PM

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"Cheeky Cherry"..............wtf???

another pe site...

JonPop · 03-13-2008, 07:22 PM

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"Cheeky Cherry"..............wtf???

Yeah, like dogg said. Has a whole section just for women. And I might add, many, many female members. They get quite raunchy. Broncogirl would be a perfect member.

10 · 03-13-2008, 08:31 PM

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another pe site...

I didn't know this either. Geez dogg, you've taught me alot these past couple days.......

happy stud · 03-14-2008, 03:23 AM

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Originally Posted by JonPop

Yeah, like dogg said. Has a whole section just for women. And I might add, many, many female members. They get quite raunchy. Broncogirl would be a perfect member.

Hell we got 4 or 5 women now. why cant we start something like that over here?

southern tz · 03-16-2008, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by happy stud

Hell we got 4 or 5 women now. why cant we start something like that over here?

And what do you think we are doing now in this forum?

JonPop · 03-16-2008, 09:05 PM

Yeah, studly, actually we do have the "Woman's Perspective" forum.

chinchillables · 05-27-2008, 04:27 AM

There probably is a lot of women on here seeing what men think and do about their penis sizes and to learn about sex, etc. but probably have registered as males. Maybe not to get hit on, but either way... I KNOW there are more women on here than you think.

southern tz · 05-28-2008, 12:54 AM

I am very curious about something. Y'all seem to be overly obsessed over the size of your penis, but when I am super horny, I'd prefer a guy who might be average in size but who can do some heavy duty pounding for 15-20 minutes over a guy with a huge dick who can only last 2-3 minutes. I realize there is Viagra, but what exercise(s), if any, do ya'll do for endurance? Or, are there any?

JonPop · 05-28-2008, 01:24 AM

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Originally Posted by chinchillables

There probably is a lot of women on here seeing what men think and do about their penis sizes and to learn about sex, etc. but probably have registered as males. Maybe not to get hit on, but either way... I KNOW there are more women on here than you think.

And, how do you KNOW this? Give me one reference.

Marty5379 · 05-28-2008, 01:35 AM

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Originally Posted by southern tz

I am very curious about something. Y'all seem to be overly obsessed over the size of your penis, but when I am super horny, I'd prefer a guy who might be average in size but who can do some heavy duty pounding for 15-20 minutes over a guy with a huge dick who can only last 2-3 minutes. I realize there is Viagra, but what exercise(s), if any, do ya'll do for endurance? Or, are there any?

Jelqing can help a tremendous amount. However, experience works better. A lot of it is between the ears, too. Make it your objective to wear out that ass and then cum. Age and experience teach you much about lasting in bed ... better yet, about outlasting the pussy. Draining the cum out of her is a motivation to me and keeps me from pulling the trigger too soon.

It's a game and I like to win. You wanna compete?

Moral of story: Get you an experienced redneck, not some wannabee cajun.

sikdogg · 05-28-2008, 01:39 AM

A guy can do kegels and edging to help from cumming too soon, but the one thing we all forget is cardiovascular endurance... Pounding away for 15-20 minutes straight is like running a small marathon. The moral of the story is that after all the PE is done, a guy will need to make sure that he is pretty fit from a cardio standpoint.

Min'sGirl · 05-28-2008, 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by sikdogg

A guy can do kegels and edging to help from cumming too soon, but the one thing we all forget is cardiovascular endurance... Pounding away for 15-20 minutes straight is like running a small marathon. The moral of the story is that after all the PE is done, a guy will need to make sure that he is pretty fit from a cardio standpoint.

Exactly. My husband just can't seem to do a quickie to save his life, we always start out fully believing it is going to be an "in and out" deal, but nope, always turns into a regular session

And he has very good cardio endurance(though it did slip a bit during his 5 year break from regular exercise because of 3 years of recruiting and when he was out of the Army for almost 2 years, but that didn't effect his performance, and now that he's back in and exercising regularly, and doing PE, all I can say is WOW!

).

happy stud · 05-28-2008, 03:35 AM

Its kinda like the chicken and egg thing. The more you fuck the more exercise you give your heart. So if you want to last longer fuck more.

W.M.P. · 05-28-2008, 03:55 AM

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Originally Posted by southern tz

I am very curious about something. Y'all seem to be overly obsessed over the size of your penis, but when I am super horny, I'd prefer a guy who might be average in size but who can do some heavy duty pounding for 15-20 minutes over a guy with a huge dick who can only last 2-3 minutes. I realize there is Viagra, but what exercise(s), if any, do ya'll do for endurance? Or, are there any?

From the very 1st time I had sex, I've been that guy with the average size (6.5") who will pound away for as long as need be. For me, from the begining, it has always been mental; I just truly get off on pleasuring the woman I'm with til' she shakes her head in disbelief. Plus, both foreplay and fucking are in many ways more appealing to me than the orgasm itself. I truly enjoy appreciating my girl's body with all its nuances from every angle possible as I fuck her; it just a beatiful thing for me and I get into this zone where I simply don't want it to end. How her lips look when we're at it (all full, red and pouty), her natural "handfulls" with those beautiful nipples moving with every thrust, the moans, the glow of her body drenched in my sweat, the reddening on her face as I suddenly go full throttle for minutes at a time in between periods of steady "half-throttle" pounding, laying her "spread-eagle" and handing her the vibrator so I can watch her get all red, holding her breath as she works that clit to oblivion while I furiously fuck her while watching her tummy contracting as she comes AND the eventual look on her face as (right after cumming) she realizes that the pounding is just getting started.........I could go on to no end. WHY WOULD I WANT TO COME ANY TIME SOON WHEN I CAN ENJOY ALL THAT UNTIL SHE BEGS ME TO COME??!!! That's where it's at for me

. As for the cardiovascular exercise, it does make quite a difference in terms of the quality of the erection for those long sessions. Just being in shape overall, should be a key component of anyone who not only wants to grow their unit but to also be able to make it work at it's max.

10 · 05-28-2008, 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by happy stud

Its kinda like the chicken and egg thing. The more you fuck the more exercise you give your heart. So if you want to last longer fuck more.

Well, guess I'm doomed for a shortened life span.............

southern belle · 05-28-2008, 11:55 AM

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I wouldn`t say obsessed, maybe pre-occupied? I have an average size penis and on a good day can fuck for 30-40 minutes before orgasm, but I WILL eat your pussy until you come violently. Does that count?

I'm sometimes gullible. Can you really last that long? Wow, is your girlfriend sore afterwards?

chinchillables · 05-28-2008, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by ChinChillables

There probably is a lot of women on here seeing what men think and do about their penis sizes and to learn about sex, etc. but probably have registered as males. Maybe not to get hit on, but either way... I KNOW there are more women on here than you think.

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And, how do you KNOW this? Give me one reference.

I can't, lol. But out of 6,815 members... I KNOW it's more than the FOUR (4) women that were stated. And IF I'm wrong... I'mma go convince some women to sign up JUST so I can be right. so there.

JonPop · 05-28-2008, 06:10 PM

Oh, I agree. There have been several female members that have joined, a few have posted a couple of times, and then Poof! They are gone. Still carrying them on the membership rolls, doesn't count. But, yes, go get some more women to join our fine little forum.

10 · 05-28-2008, 09:22 PM

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Yes mam, I can last that long and hit it like a FIEND in any position desired for that amount of time

Yes my wife is sore after one of those and usually i will only get bj`s or hand jobs for a few day`s after one of those. Too bad

Unfortunatly with the kids around constantly it`s hard to have the freaky, sweaty, monky sex all the time

Freakin' kids ruin everything...........

southern belle · 05-29-2008, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by StrokerAce69

Yes mam, I can last that long and hit it like a FIEND in any position desired for that amount of time

Yes my wife is sore after one of those and usually i will only get bj`s or hand jobs for a few day`s after one of those. Too bad

Unfortunatly with the kids around constantly it`s hard to have the freaky, sweaty, monky sex all the time

Do you do any cardio exercising to give you all this stamina and/or anything else?