04-01-2006, 03:24 AM
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| Slower intercourse better for orgasms?
I've noticed that when I have sex with my girlfriend I go nice and slow, varying the depth of penetration and generally teasing more, that she gets off rather easily. When I use a moderate speed and maintain the exact. Same. Pace, she cums easily. When we both just feel like fucking and I go hard, fast, and intense, she NEVER cums (although she makes a lot of noise). I've noticed this with other women that I've had sex with as well, although I just made the connection now. Has anyone else noticed the same thing or is it just me. | 
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04-01-2006, 07:51 PM
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| I've tried to put my finger on that one as well but no luck. I think it all depends on the females mood and state of arousal. My current lady has different levels of orgasms even though I may use same techniques and speed etc. She is almost 30 and never had an orgasm until me so she is still getting to know herself and through our communication I'm learning alot too. Kind of like having a virgin except she is far from it. Some ladies want it hard and fast and some say "Not so Hard!!!" which makes me shake my head, I have been with a few women that I am all out like a runaway freight train and they look me in the eye and say "Don't hold back" and I ain't got nothing left to hold back!!! The bed has bounced across the room, all the pictures are shaken off the walls and the whole block is looking out their windows and she's saying don't hold back......give me a break  | |
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04-01-2006, 09:09 PM
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| Hey Sonic. Don't hold back? You could try taking off your parka first. Hee
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04-02-2006, 12:39 AM
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| I've noticed that the more I pay attention to my lady as opposed to just my cock thrusting into her vagina, she enjoys sex more.
I can pound away like gangbusters but that doesn't do as much for her as when I talk to her, caress her, kiss her, lick her... while I am working the magic motion. Treat her like the lady you love as opposed to just some vagina you're banging and you'll see a big difference in how she reacts; regardless of speed.
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04-02-2006, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted by GRX I've noticed that the more I pay attention to my lady as opposed to just my cock thrusting into her vagina, she enjoys sex more.
I can pound away like gangbusters but that doesn't do as much for her as when I talk to her, caress her, kiss her, lick her... while I am working the magic motion. Treat her like the lady you love as opposed to just some vagina you're banging and you'll see a big difference in how she reacts; regardless of speed. | Well, GRX, I can see some of you guys are starting to learn how to treat a womanl!  | |
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04-02-2006, 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted by jennifer Well, GRX, I can see some of you guys are starting to learn how to treat a womanl! | Treat a whatnow?
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04-02-2006, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Überschwanz Treat a whatnow? | Well, Uber, I can see all of the excessive PM's between you and Happy Stud is starting to be reflected in your posts.  | |
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04-02-2006, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted by jennifer Well, Uber, I can see all of the excessive PM's between you and Happy Stud is starting to be reflected in your posts. | Hell yea Jennifer ol Uber is coming along real good. | |
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04-04-2006, 03:13 PM
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| Slow, caressing, gentle motions. Don't be in a rush. This only makes a woman feel like you just want to blow your load. Besides, the longer the foreplay, the more intense the orgasms for both the man and woman. I love a long session of foreplay, especially while we are both watching a porn flick. Makes a woman get soaked!
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04-05-2006, 11:34 PM
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| Another thing. Even when they say "Faster, faster," don't go faster. I've personally found that this will bring them over the edge whereas actually giving in and giving them what they want won't. I have a book on assisting women with g-spot orgasms and ejaculation and it says the same thing. Just keep a slow, steady pace once you've found your groove and don't change it no matter what they say.
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06-04-2006, 02:27 AM
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Originally Posted by vaiosony I've noticed that when I have sex with my girlfriend I go nice and slow, varying the depth of penetration and generally teasing more, that she gets off rather easily. When I use a moderate speed and maintain the exact. Same. Pace, she cums easily. When we both just feel like fucking and I go hard, fast, and intense, she NEVER cums (although she makes a lot of noise). I've noticed this with other women that I've had sex with as well, although I just made the connection now. Has anyone else noticed the same thing or is it just me. | If you build the intimacy together. You both should be able to still Slam Fuck. And Orgasm...Hell Ya!   | |
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06-04-2006, 04:36 PM
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| Some of y'all really seem to know what you are doing. Yes, I agree going slow drives me crazy. Also, it makes it more special when the guy goes slow and takes his time. For me, I feel like the guy isn't trying to hurry up and get through so he can go watch Sports Center or something. | |
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06-04-2006, 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted by southern belle Some of y'all really seem to know what you are doing. Yes, I agree going slow drives me crazy. Also, it makes it more special when the guy goes slow and takes his time. For me, I feel like the guy isn't trying to hurry up and get through so he can go watch Sports Center or something. | When you get a chance, ask Happy stud about "Wife Fucking" I guarantee you'll laugh your ass off.
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06-04-2006, 05:11 PM
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Originally Posted by southern belle Some of y'all really seem to know what you are doing. Yes, I agree going slow drives me crazy. Also, it makes it more special when the guy goes slow and takes his time. For me, I feel like the guy isn't trying to hurry up and get through so he can go watch Sports Center or something. | God I love Tivo.
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06-04-2006, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Überschwanz God I love Tivo. | By the time women like Susan and I got through with you, that SportsCenter would be VERY old news! | |
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06-04-2006, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted by JonPop When you get a chance, ask Happy stud about "Wife Fucking" I guarantee you'll laugh your ass off. | Hey JonPop Susan aint a wife so she dont need to know all that shit. | |
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06-04-2006, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by JonPop When you get a chance, ask Happy stud about "Wife Fucking" I guarantee you'll laugh your ass off. |
Better yet, ask him about "toe fucking".............he's got the corner market on that topic!!
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06-04-2006, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted by jennifer By the time women like Susan and I got through with you, that SportsCenter would be VERY old news! | I don't know Jen. Dan Patrick is pretty hot himself.
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06-04-2006, 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Überschwanz I don't know Jen. Dan Patrick is pretty hot himself. | So, shall we start saying:
Uber likes Dan Patrick's goober? | |
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Originally Posted by jennifer So, shall we start saying:
Uber likes Dan Patrick's goober? | No, I just like the way he delivers sports news. So much better than that Michael Kim guy.
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06-05-2006, 12:28 AM
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Originally Posted by jennifer So, shall we start saying:
Uber likes Dan Patrick's goober? | Hey Uber to get your nuts back faster you should ask Jennifer to use FedEx. | |
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06-05-2006, 12:56 AM
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Originally Posted by happy stud Hey Uber to get your nuts back faster you should ask Jennifer to use FedEx. | I don't know if Uber would want them back, I think Jennifer busted 'em.
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Originally Posted by happy stud Hey Uber to get your nuts back faster you should ask Jennifer to use FedEx. | What's the point? FedEx would break them if Jennifer hasn't already.
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Originally Posted by Überschwanz What's the point? FedEx would break them if Jennifer hasn't already. | Yea but at least you would get some insurance money from FedEx. You aint gonna get shit from Jennifer except her laughing at your ass. | |
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Originally Posted by JonPop When you get a chance, ask Happy stud about "Wife Fucking" I guarantee you'll laugh your ass off. | He told me that was only for people over 50 and it didn't pertain to me. Why do I have a feeling there is more to the story? | |
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06-05-2006, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted by southern belle He told me that was only for people over 50 and it didn't pertain to me. Why do I have a feeling there is more to the story? |
You're wise to feel that way Belle, after all, it is Maurice we're talking about here.....
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06-05-2006, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted by southern belle He told me that was only for people over 50 and it didn't pertain to me. Why do I have a feeling there is more to the story? | Taken from the "Woman's Perspective" Forum. Misc.- Anything Goes, thread. Post #50. Quote: |
Originally Posted by Happy Stud.
Im sorry man I keep forgeting you non coonasses dont know the same shit as we do. Wife fucking means your fucking a woman as fast and as hard as you can non-stop. You dont stop to rest or for a beer break or to change positions or to change the tv channel or to scratch your ass or for nothing.
The reason why its called wife fucking is because if you were fucking someones wife you would be fucking her as fast as you could so you could ge | | |
