Who cums first ?

Iwantabigcock · 04-09-2006, 05:15 AM

Who cums (orgasm) first, you or your partner ?

vaiosony · 04-09-2006, 05:41 AM

Definitely my girl first. I like to start with oral first but then I find it hard to make her cum again with intercourse. I'm not sure but maybe she gets a bit desensitized? If I start with intercourse without the appetizer, she cums first 70% of the time, we cum simultaneously 20% of the time, and I mistime it and cum before her 10% of the time.

I want her to have more multiples though. And I wanna try the g-spot / female ejaculation techniques with my hands but she pulls me up whenever I stay down there too long regardless of how much she loves it. She says that she feels "selfish" when I get too wrapped up in pleasuring her.

Weird huh.

PS - IWABC, your stats are hella inspiring for newbies like me.

rocky6535 · 04-09-2006, 05:53 AM

Her, but lately she wants me to be less unselfish.

JonPop · 04-09-2006, 04:22 PM

Simple. Ask her at the onset of sex, if she wants to orgasm first or if she wants you to. She may be tired, or not feeling well and is only doing this out of love for you and would just as soon not make it a marathon. If your partner instigates sex, you can be pretty sure that she want's more than just a quickie, if you are the one pushing for 'bumping fuzzies', then simply ask her.

sikdogg · 04-10-2006, 11:08 PM

I try to always give her at least one orgasm before i penetrate her. This way, if for any reason i lose my cool and blow first, she won't be too disappointed.

Iwantabigcock · 04-11-2006, 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by sikdogg

I try to always give her at least one orgasm before i penetrate her. This way, if for any reason i lose my cool and blow first, she won't be too disappointed.

Dogg,

Yaaaah, but then she is all sensitive and already had her orgasm, like after a guy blows - his cock is useless ?

GRX · 04-11-2006, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Iwantabigcock

...like after a guy blows - his cock is useless ?

Not the case for all guys. Some of us are able to keep going after the first nut.

SonicCelt · 04-11-2006, 12:37 AM

I've said it before and I'll say it again
"Nice guys finish last"

Unless of course, you're not feeling particularly nice at the time.

Iwantabigcock · 04-11-2006, 03:50 AM

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Originally Posted by GRX

Not the case for all guys. Some of us are able to keep going after the first nut.

Du,

You mean to tell me that you can throw more loads after the first one ? Geez, I can do that, but it takes awhile. I guess you stay hard ? How did you get that skill ? My one buddy has that skill and can actually stay hard for 3,4,5 loads ? Let me know how you got this blessing ? LOL

sikdogg · 04-11-2006, 04:13 AM

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Originally Posted by GRX

Not the case for all guys. Some of us are able to keep going after the first nut.

Lucky SOB...

GRX · 04-11-2006, 04:50 AM

If I "bust" during the first hour of sex and we want to continue, I can usually stay hard and keep going. Usually, it's not until after the second hour or so that I'll bust. And by that time, we're both a little tired and decide to call it quits for an hour or so to refresh before going again.

I'm not sure how I "aquired" this skill. I think it is more mental than physical. If we're really hot and into it, I'm still really turned on and just keep going. Don't stop and rest, giving it time to deflate. Keep the stimulation going and you'll be surprised how easy it is to keep going.

pornman · 04-11-2006, 05:45 PM

My ex always came first. She wanted me to cum when she did, but I kept telling her it wasn't all about me.

Iwantabigcock · 04-11-2006, 06:31 PM

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My ex always came first. She wanted me to cum when she did, but I kept telling her it wasn't all about me.

WOW, thats fucked up ! Boy Oh boy, isnt it wierd how men cater to women - even we try to let them cum first - that is really fucked up. I do the same thing with my wife, try to let her cum first, but with her fucken control over her ass/pussy muscles, she squeezes((Kegels) like a vice, I dont really win (cum second) too much ?

Like Super Sonic said "Nice Guys finish last" - and I think 10 would agree, especially with women in more than one way.

I guess that is where the saying "Nice Guys Finish Last" comes from ?

Überschwanz · 04-11-2006, 06:45 PM

Be careful not to double post IWABC.

10 · 04-12-2006, 05:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Überschwanz

Be careful not to double post IWABC.

Uh.......Uber, not to question your superior intellect brother but did I miss something here? When did IWABC double post???

10 · 04-12-2006, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Iwantabigcock

WOW, thats fucked up ! Boy Oh boy, isnt it wierd how men cater to women - even we try to let them cum first - that is really fucked up. I do the same thing with my wife, try to let her cum first, but with her fucken control over her ass/pussy muscles, she squeezes((Kegels) like a vice, I dont really win (cum second) too much ?

Like Super Sonic said "Nice Guys finish last" - and I think 10 would agree, especially with women in more than one way.

I guess that is where the saying "Nice Guys Finish Last" comes from ?

I've always felt they do.........sometimes I think that phrase was modeled after me.

Überschwanz · 04-12-2006, 06:35 AM

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Uh.......Uber, not to question your superior intellect brother but did I miss something here? When did IWABC double post???

Prepare yourself for a shock 10. I deleted the other one (and physically removed the message. Nobody ever does that.).

jennifer · 04-12-2006, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by sikdogg

I try to always give her at least one orgasm before i penetrate her. This way, if for any reason i lose my cool and blow first, she won't be too disappointed.

The dogg sometimes loses his cool? Then, does that make you a hotdogg?

10 · 04-12-2006, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Überschwanz

Prepare yourself for a shock 10. I deleted the other one (and physically removed the message. Nobody ever does that.).

Smart ass...........

Iwantabigcock · 04-13-2006, 05:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Überschwanz

Be careful not to double post IWABC.

Where did I double post ? If I did, it wasnt done intentionally !

Iwantabigcock · 04-13-2006, 05:54 AM

Uber,

We have to watch so we dont get nit picky like over at ThundersPlace. I got canned over there for not using correct english ! That shit(people with a little power - usually people that were never in charge of anything) pulling rank doesnt work with me !

Like I said over at Thunders(read my post over there), there is a way of doing things, then there is overdoing it and a right way of doing things.

Too bad the cocky chick over Thunders didnt want to act like an adult and discuss it with me, she pulled her rank and cried like a baby and took her football and went home - and canned me from the site. But to her dismay, I came back under a different name - she just made a fool outta herself.

Überschwanz · 04-13-2006, 06:32 AM

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Uber,

We have to watch so we dont get nit picky like over at ThundersPlace. I got canned over there for not using correct english ! That shit(people with a little power - usually people that were never in charge of anything) pulling rank doesnt work with me !

Back off now IWABC. I suggest you read the second bullet.

Forum Guidelines

Furthermore, I'll pull rank with you if I see fit. If you don't like it, T.S. Eliot.

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Too bad the cocky chick over Thunders didnt want to act like an adult and discuss it with me, she pulled her rank and cried like a baby and took her football and went home - and canned me from the site. But to her dismay, I came back under a different name - she just made a fool outta herself.

That won't work here. We track IPs.

Iwantabigcock · 04-13-2006, 06:03 PM

Oh, yaaaaa,

How many IP's do I have ? And I guess you'd be final say - Rob, 10, JP, Sonic wouldnt have a say ? WOW, that would be like Thunders !

But like I said at Thunders Place, people like you have no balls ! All "workballs" and when you see guys like you outside, they want to be your friend (cause they know something else will happen if they act like a tough guy). Dude, I put up with people like you allllll day in my job! When I get them alone, they cry like babies and melt !

Its actually embarassing to act like a tough guy, then get put in your place . . . especially when others witness it . . . . LOL.

Apparrently your a young kid. Act like a man - get treated like a man. If you can dish it out, be ready to take it and eat it ?

PS: With my job, I have friends allll over the place . . . LOL

Überschwanz · 04-13-2006, 07:32 PM

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How many IP's do I have ?

We have no less than 110 distinct IP addresses that you have used. The bad news for you is that more IPs means that it's easier to track you.

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And I guess you'd be final say - Rob, 10, JP, Sonic wouldnt have a say ? WOW, that would be like Thunders !

You are overestimating your support on this forum IWABC. Trust me.

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But like I said at Thunders Place, people like you have no balls ! All "workballs" and when you see guys like you outside, they want to be your friend (cause they know something else will happen if they act like a tough guy). Dude, I put up with people like you allllll day in my job! When I get them alone, they cry like babies and melt !

Really? In my experience people who talk tough when getting defensive tend to be small-minded and have no other way to express themselves than to give "Oh yeah?!" statements like you've just done. Arguing with you would be pointless and to be totally frank, your opinion of me has no value because you don't even know me. I couldn't care less what you think about me.

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Its actually embarassing to act like a tough guy, then get put in your place . . . especially when others witness it . . . . LOL.

I was put in my place? You couldn't even form a cogent argument and you're acting like you burned me?

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Originally Posted by Iwantabigcock

Apparrently your a young kid. Act like a man - get treated like a man. If you can dish it out, be ready to take it and eat it ?

Buddy, where I come from a man is defined by his respect for other people. You've just shown a wanton disrespect for me, this forum, and its guidelines. A true man is not defined by his age in the slightest.

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PS: With my job, I have friends allll over the place . . . LOL

Is this some veiled threat? Nearly as I can tell you're the kind of guy who chose to become a cop because he couldn't beat up high school classmates forever. Don't get me wrong, most cops are very good people and don't try to muscle other people around just to give themselves an ego boost. I'm not afraid of you.

JonPop · 04-13-2006, 09:44 PM

Choose your words carefully when you reply to this, Jim.

You are on VERY thin ice, here.