Improvement in the First month

boxeador · 04-26-2006, 04:00 PM

I've read around on the net. It seems that they say after a month you will/should see a differance. Just a difference, there was no fine print on this. So I'm woundering how many here saw an improvement after the first month of PE.

edit: they were talking about jelqing by hand

Überschwanz · 04-26-2006, 04:26 PM

Everybody is different. Some guys don't see anything for several months.

rocky6535 · 04-28-2006, 12:20 AM

When it happens, you won't be able to tell unless you measure and then it'll surprise you. If it happens though, you'll know then and there that you'll never quit for good no matter what. Results make this thing addictive...

supafly208 · 08-26-2006, 07:24 PM

yes. definitely. I didn't grow any in my first month, but i could definitely feel it being fuller/thicker all day long. Get a better hang out of it. and when i get hard, well, it's veinier. Just keep at it,it takes time just like everything else. it's slow and steady but definitly worth it :)

Brock Landers · 01-17-2007, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by rocky6535

When it happens, you won't be able to tell unless you measure and then it'll surprise you. If it happens though, you'll know then and there that you'll never quit for good no matter what. Results make this thing addictive...

I got my extender and used it for about 60 hours in the first 2 1/2 weeks and one day just decided to measure it and suddenly I gained .4 inches! I went from about 7.1 to 7.5. I had done PE on and off but this time I stuck to it.

Loki · 01-17-2007, 10:02 AM

Brock,
Good gains in 2 1/2 weeks, bet you was delighted wasn't you ? Wish I wasn't a closet PE'er, I'd really like to give the device a try , I'm sure the wife would give me her funny look if I had one of thoe things hooked up to my penis. I know she on to me but I won't admit it just yet. The other night I was on this site and she came over to get my coffee cup, while she was in my area she was scanning the screen, acting like she wasn't

, I got a kick out of it.
Great job and keep up the great work.

Loki · 01-17-2007, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by supafly208

yes. definitely. I didn't grow any in my first month, but i could definitely feel it being fuller/thicker all day long. Get a better hang out of it. and when i get hard, well, it's veinier. Just keep at it,it takes time just like everything else. it's slow and steady but definitly worth it :)

Supafly208,
Looks like your getting the most from your workout. Your right, it does take time but well worth it.

want8 · 01-17-2007, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Loki

Brock,
Good gains in 2 1/2 weeks, bet you was delighted wasn't you ? Wish I wasn't a closet PE'er, I'd really like to give the device a try , I'm sure the wife would give me her funny look if I had one of thoe things hooked up to my penis. I know she on to me but I won't admit it just yet. The other night I was on this site and she came over to get my coffee cup, while she was in my area she was scanning the screen, acting like she wasn't

, I got a kick out of it.
Great job and keep up the great work.

Get out of the closet my man! I can tell you from experience she does know you are doing something. When I finally told my wife it was like a whole new form of PE started. Now sometimes I will grab my PJ and do my Jelq's while she in taking a bath or shower. I love it!

slimthug · 01-17-2007, 07:56 PM

Don't tell her... I just tell my girfreind I don't know whats going on. From time to time she tells me it feels bigger...I just look at her like I have no clue why;)

JonPop · 01-17-2007, 10:46 PM

Hey Loki, you are a moderator now and have even more commitment to the forum and will be involved here for a very long time. Time to step up and tell your wife exactly what you are doing and why. One of the best things I ever did was to tell my wife about PE. You know yourself how intuitive women are and she is sensing that you are keeping something from her. Women always think the worst if we try and fool them. They assume that it has something to do with them or with the marriage. Mrs. JP was very relieved when I told her what I was doing and she said, "Oh, is that all?" She became very supportive and was and is VERY happy with the results. This will make it so much easier to do the exercises and to purchase the advanced tools to reach your goals.
A good place to start would be to tell her about your involvment with the Betterman forum. How we thought enough of you to make you a Moderator, how the concept here is to make the members a better person, husband and lover, just don't try and overwhelm her with too much to start. Then, after you break the ice, listen to her feedback and answer any questions she might have. Reassure her that this is something you have set as a goal for yourself and want to do this for the both of you. Being a closet PE'r isn't any fun, especially when you see those gains coming and want to share your excitement with your wife. Mrs. JP was always wanting to measure when I was doing so much growing now she just says Oooomph when I hit bottom.

Good Luck.

Loki · 01-18-2007, 01:06 AM

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Originally Posted by want8

Get out of the closet my man! I can tell you from experience she does know you are doing something. When I finally told my wife it was like a whole new form of PE started. Now sometimes I will grab my PJ and do my Jelq's while she in taking a bath or shower. I love it!

Your right Want8,
In many was I would like to come out, it would make things much easer. I know she knows, I have left little clues here and there, just trying to trick her into a conversation on the subject, but know luck just yet. I would feel weird if I just blurted it out and I'm sure she'd run right to her girlfriend with this hot news flash, those women ya know............

She came real close one night to asking me, right after doing the wild thing she looked right in my eyes, hesitated, started to ask me something, then she stopped. I didn't press her for her to finish, but I know that's what it was.
The reason I know that's what it was , was because we had gone like six weeks with no sex, in that six weeks I had grown over an inch in leghth and 1/4" in girth, trust me my freind that was a night to remember. Since then our sex life has improved from every three to six weeks to once a week "like clockwork"

You might be asking yourself, she must see the difference ? Well, since our sex drought and starting PE, I only let her catch little flashes of me, I catch her trying, but............ It adds to the mystery.

I already know what I will tell her when she brings it up, I'll say this, I'm a fiftyone year old man who has no ed issues, I do not want to be one of the millions who are my age and younger that do. These excersies that are required for proper health and well being are a very small price to pay, and enlargement is a perment side affect.

Loki · 01-18-2007, 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by JonPop

Hey Loki, you are a moderator now and have even more commitment to the forum and will be involved here for a very long time. Time to step up and tell your wife exactly what you are doing and why. One of the best things I ever did was to tell my wife about PE. You know yourself how intuitive women are and she is sensing that you are keeping something from her. Women always think the worst if we try and fool them. They assume that it has something to do with them or with the marriage. Mrs. JP was very relieved when I told her what I was doing and she said, "Oh, is that all?" She became very supportive and was and is VERY happy with the results. This will make it so much easier to do the exercises and to purchase the advanced tools to reach your goals.
A good place to start would be to tell her about your involvment with the Betterman forum. How we thought enough of you to make you a Moderator, how the concept here is to make the members a better person, husband and lover, just don't try and overwhelm her with too much to start. Then, after you break the ice, listen to her feedback and answer any questions she might have. Reassure her that this is something you have set as a goal for yourself and want to do this for the both of you. Being a closet PE'r isn't any fun, especially when you see those gains coming and want to share your excitement with your wife. Mrs. JP was always wanting to measure when I was doing so much growing now she just says Oooomph when I hit bottom.

Good Luck.

My wife is hard to approch on some things,
She's the type that when I've dropped enough clues she can't take it any longer, she asks. If I was to come right out and tell her, she'd be scared, she already thinks I'm horny bastard, she's right I am. Her drive is less than mine and she my think my drive will go higher. Thing is, I'm ten years older than my wife and she thinks I should have slowed down years ago.

I make jokes when we see ed pills on tv, I ask her if I should get a free sample and see if it will help my sex drive, her reaction..........

NO !!! You don't need any of that. I make the jokes to open the door.

As far as my new position here, I told her that I was made a Moderator on this site, do you think she had any questions? Not yet. I'm sure they will come, just don't know when. When I'm in the bath for fourty five minutes to an hour and how much bigger I've gotten, she has to know.

Maybe she has seen my screen name and while she's at work she has looked the site over, never thought of that till now, wouldn't be a bad thing.
I don't hide the fact that I'm on here as much as I am, the computer is right in the living room, if I need to get up and do something I leave the screen on and it does't matter if I'm posting a reply or just reading what others have written. So you see, I've oppened the door, all she has to do is come in.

Loki · 01-18-2007, 02:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by boxeador

I've read around on the net. It seems that they say after a month you will/should see a differance. Just a difference, there was no fine print on this. So I'm woundering how many here saw an improvement after the first month of PE.

edit: they were talking about jelqing by hand

Some are fast, some are slow,
Main thing, be steady and do your routine faithfully.

My gains:

October 14th 2005
4 3/4" bpel
4" eg

December 08th 2005
5 7/8" bpel
4 ½" eg

February 14th 2006
6 ¼" bpel
4 ¾" eg

June 13 2006
6 1/2" bpel
5 1/4" eg

Marty5379 · 01-18-2007, 03:49 AM

JP is right. When I came out of the closet I felt like a queer moving out of Alabama to California

I grew quick - real quick. She knew early on that something was different and I eased into the conversation and then spilled my gutts. Since then she has asked me to stop a few times and I did. But once I could tell she had adjusted, back to it I went. That went on for a while and today I just hit spurts of PE. Not that I don't enjoy PE or want to grow more, but because at my present size she is very comfortable and so am I. It was about increasing her pleasure, not her pain. I have accomplished the pleasure.

Loki · 01-18-2007, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Marty5379

JP is right. When I came out of the closet I felt like a queer moving out of Alabama to California

I grew quick - real quick. She knew early on that something was different and I eased into the conversation and then spilled my gutts. Since then she has asked me to stop a few times and I did. But once I could tell she had adjusted, back to it I went. That went on for a while and today I just hit spurts of PE. Not that I don't enjoy PE or want to grow more, but because at my present size she is very comfortable and so am I. It was about increasing her pleasure, not her pain. I have accomplished the pleasure.

I've left lots of bait to try spark a conversation, but she hasn't swallowed yet, she hasn't even nibbled. She's seen all the supplements that I take every morning, I've left my ADS on my dresser, I think she has even found my pump and still, the bobber has even made a ripple.
Maybe she's content in not addressing the issue, maybe she just wants to kick back and enjoy the benefits and see how far it will go. Or she might be amused by all the tricks that I've tried to get the conversation rolling. As a rule I can get her into position to address issues, but this one is a real challange. Time will tell, I'm sure it will be an interesting story when it happends.

10 · 01-18-2007, 12:43 PM

I already know what I will tell her when she brings it up, I'll say this, I'm a fiftyone year old man who has no ed issues, I do not want to be one of the millions who are my age and younger that do. These excersies that are required for proper health and well being are a very small price to pay, and enlargement is a perment side affect.

This is the very reason I stick to the routine. I don't want to be one of those men with ED or any other penis ailment. Life's too short.....

want8 · 01-18-2007, 02:22 PM

Maybe she's content in not addressing the issue, maybe she just wants to kick back and enjoy the benefits and see how far it will go. Or she might be amused by all the tricks that I've tried to get the conversation rolling. As a rule I can get her into position to address issues, but this one is a real challange. Time will tell, I'm sure it will be an interesting story when it happends.[/quote]
The flip side of the coin here is that she may be wondering why you are doing these things. Is he tired of me, is he trying to please someone else, etc. My wife new I was doing something and the way I broke the ice, one morning I put my PM on and had on my robe watching TV at the bar waiting for her to get out of bed. When she rounded the corner I was sitting so there was no doubt she would see the PM. She just calmly sat down and said, what is that thing? I told her and the rest is history. I am so glad I finally told her and I think she was very relieved when I did. Like JP said, women worry about what us men are doing and they may think we are up to something that doesn't involve them.

amarant · 11-17-2007, 07:19 PM

I had some flaccid length gains after one months. No gains in EL yet.