Female Perspective on Relationships - Page 4

10 · 06-27-2006, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by want8

Why hell yeah! Especially if she came on to me like John described in his earlier post.

I have to admit, if what happened in JP's scenario actually happened with me........yeah, I'd be inclined to throw morality out the f'n window and bang her up one side and down the other......hell, sideways even!!!

want8 · 06-27-2006, 02:41 PM

No shit! I mean, if a woman is sitting in the hot tub with you, reaches over and grabs your cock, then goes under the water and starts sucking on it? It would be damn difficult for me to pull her head up and say, we can't do this!

10 · 06-27-2006, 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by want8

No shit! I mean, if a woman is sitting in the hot tub with you, reaches over and grabs your cock, then goes under the water and starts sucking on it? It would be damn difficult for me to pull her head up and say, we can't do this!

As much as I'd like to say that I could do that, who the fuck am I kidding? I may have standards but I'm a man, plain and simple. If she wants to suck my cock in the hot tub, I'm damn sure gonna let her......

want8 · 06-27-2006, 02:43 PM

Hey, the women are asking all the questions here! So Belle and Jen, reverse the senerio. What would you do if you were the one in the hot tub and a guy that was a 10 reahes over and puts his hands down you bikinni and starts rubbing your clit, then goes under the water and starts kissing your lips and sucking your pussy? Then gets out and gives you his cell number and says, call me, I want to finish what we started. What would you do?

10 · 06-27-2006, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by want8

Hey, the women are asking all the questions here! So Belle and Jen, reverse the senerio. What would you do if you were the one in the hot tub and a guy that was a 10 reahes over and puts his hands down you bikinni and starts rubbing your clit, then goes under the water and starts kissing your lips and sucking your pussy? Then gets out and gives you his cell number and says, call me, I want to finish what we started. What would you do?

Yeah, I'm kind of curious myself. And, I'll throw in a twist, he's got a girlfriend that is a "casual" friend of yours...........and be honest ladies.....

JonPop · 06-27-2006, 04:13 PM

Oh my. You guys. Jennifer or Susan either one would, as soon as he reached down their bikini, yell, and slap the shit out of the guy. This would be an unwanted and unsolicited form of sexual aggression. I don't care how good looking the guy was, he would get an ass chewing and her casual friend would no longer be welcome.
When are you guys going to learn the old adage? Men give love to get sex. Women give sex to get love.
A man would be flattered for the sexual attention, a women, on the other hand, would be shocked. But, I am only speaking for our beloved Jennifer and Susan.

southern belle · 06-27-2006, 05:22 PM

Thanks, JonPop. Your answer was excellent. I guess there is a small number of bimbos who would let the guy do all the stuff that was written in the previous posts, but I would never let that happen to me. Nor do I know any other women who would let it happen to them.

JonPop is right. We just don't see a great looking man and automatically think of sex like y'all do.

happy stud · 06-27-2006, 09:14 PM

Man I thought I was drunk after reading these last few posts then I remembered I hadnt had anything to drink. Are ya'll fucking with us or what? Hell I wouldnt even think about sticking my hand down some damn girls bikini unless I had been given the right signs and shit by her. Ya'll must be watching all those soft porn episodes on MoMax at night.

The fucking question ya'll should have asked is if she is with a damn good looking guy and they are having a few drinks and he asks her would she like to go someplace a little bit quieter would she go. There are 2 scenarios. In one scenario the fucker is a complete stranger she meets while shes out of town and the other one is he is someone she casually knows. She aint gonna do nothing if the guy is dating somebody she knows so fuck that idea.

sikdogg · 06-27-2006, 09:32 PM

We can't turn the tables on them that easily... because they only have one head, they can think straight. The problem with us guys is that we have two heads to think with and oftentimes they are in conflict with each other....

JonPop · 06-27-2006, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by sikdogg

We can't turn the tables on them that easily... because they only have one head, they can think straight. The problem with us guys is that we have two heads to think with and oftentimes they are in conflict with each other....

"I am your Penis. I am in command. You are powerless to resist my wishes, I have taken over your mind. You will do my bidding. I will do all of your thinking for you. All reason has left you. I am your Penis."

Betterman · 06-27-2006, 11:05 PM

Free your mind : Your dick should follow.

sikdogg · 06-27-2006, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Betterman

Free your mind : Your dick should follow.

Are you sure it's not supposed to say " free your dick and your mind will follow"??

Betterman · 06-27-2006, 11:27 PM

When I free my dick. I usually end up with cum all over the place.

10 · 06-27-2006, 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Betterman

When I free my dick. I usually end up with cum all over the place.

I "freed willy" a few times myself and now I've got kids to show for it........see what thinking with the wrong "head" can do? j/k

happy stud · 06-28-2006, 03:19 AM

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Originally Posted by sikdogg

We can't turn the tables on them that easily... because they only have one head, they can think straight. The problem with us guys is that we have two heads to think with and oftentimes they are in conflict with each other....

Hey sikdogg whats the difference between a hard dick and and a hot pussy? I thought neither one would make you be able to think straight.

sikdogg · 06-28-2006, 06:39 PM

A pussy doesn't have a head which is why women can think straight even when they're horny unlike us guys...

happy stud · 06-28-2006, 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by sikdogg

A pussy doesn't have a head which is why women can think straight even when they're horny unlike us guys...

Hey sikdogg Im confused as hell unless your fucking with us. Are you saying a womans pussy when she is horny as hell can still think whereas a mans dick when it gets hard it cant? I would think emotions would take over and they both would do irrational shit.

JonPop · 06-28-2006, 10:15 PM

Yea stud. That's how a lot of 'one nighters' come about.

sikdogg · 06-28-2006, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by happy stud

Hey sikdogg Im confused as hell unless your fucking with us. Are you saying a womans pussy when she is horny as hell can still think whereas a mans dick when it gets hard it cant? I would think emotions would take over and they both would do irrational shit.

What i'm saying is that most women have better control of their urges then men do... When a woman goes to bed with a guy, it's typically because she wanted to and not so much that she was overcome by a guy's sexy nature. If a woman is with you and creaming in her pants, it's becasue she wanted to be there and wanted to fuck you from the beginning...

slickwillie · 06-29-2006, 03:43 AM

I'm with sik on this one. Women hold the cards when it comes to control and sexual choices because you know damn well us men can't resist 99% of the time. My excuse is, what the hell, it's healthy and free (well, not really free) but you know what I mean...

Betterman · 06-29-2006, 11:44 PM

My guess would be it's all in the Act Of Seduction. On whether your able to be successful or not. Anyone can be seduced if it's done in the right manner.

tarbabee · 06-30-2006, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by southern belle

Since I do not know most of y'all, I was curious to find out something about each of you. If you were single and were dating a woman you really liked, how many weeks or months would you date her until she had sex with you? If you really liked her a lot but she wouldn't have sex with you, would you break up with her or this issue?

Well, a lot also depends on what you mean by having sex with me. I dated (and eventually married but that's another story) a woman who was very Catholic. She did not want to have sex with another man until she was married. She had been sexually active before I met her but before we met she decided that she regretted it and had decided to wait.

We dated for about 6 months before we had intercourse, but that doesn't mean that we waited until then to have any kind of sexual contact. Hell, we were having foreplay on the first date. By the way, we didn't get married until many years after we first had intercourse. We aren't married anymore, but that is not related to the question.

How long would I wait to have any kind of sex? Well, if I really liked her, I would probably wait 2-3 months, but that would be about it.

Would I break up with someone who wouldn't have sex with me at all? Even if I really liked her? Yes. As a matter of fact, that is very close to what caused me to get divorced from my third wife.

tarbabee · 06-30-2006, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by ArtemisEntreri

I have an issue in my relationship I need help on...... She is constantly wondering if their is someone better out there or someone more "right for her".......The problem was compounded yesterday. It was her birthday and she woke up to find a package on her porch from an ex who lives about 5 hours away in Indiana......its like a year and a half of our relationship meant nothing next to this one little gesture.

Been there, done this. It all depends on what you want. If you are serious about a long-term relationship (and it sounds like you are), you might want to give this relationship some serious thought. To put it simply, she is not ready to settle down yet. She needs to explore and see what it is that truly makes her happy. She may realize that what makes her truly happy is you. And she may not. But she will never be happy until she find out.

I wish you the best with this one, man. Good luck.

tarbabee · 06-30-2006, 01:20 AM

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Originally Posted by southern belle

I have a two-part question for y'all.

Since all of y'all except Jennifer and me are men, I want to know if your very best friend was cheating on his girl friend or wife, would you say anything to him about it?

Secondly, if you found out conclusively that your best friend's wife or girlfriend is cheating on your best friend, would you say anything to either him or her about it?

Ok, in neither case would I say anything to the woman. Partly because I am not that close to any of my bestfriend's women. But in both cases I would say something to the man. I am a big believer in the idea that cheating is stupid, difficult to pull off and a waste of time. In the first case, I would ask him what he thought he was doing. If he is cheating, he either needs to figure out what is wrong with his relationship or break it off in favor of playing the field.

In the second case, I would let him know because if I were in his place, I would want to know. No matter how much it might hurt.

tarbabee · 06-30-2006, 01:26 AM

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Originally Posted by jennifer

Some of you guys have given such great answers! I am so proud of you. Now, let me add just a little twist to the scenario.

Suppose your best friend's wife or girlfriend is the MOST beautiful woman you have ever seen - gorgeous face, huge, firm boobs, small waist, tight ass, great shapely long legs and your best friend has told you how great she is in bed - she can suck a cock incredibly hard and fast and make a guy cum in just a couple of minutes and swallow every drop. She also has a virgin-like, vice-gripped pussy that very, very few other women have. It is SO tight, your best friend says it always takes him a little while to insert his cock inside of her because she is SO tight. She is SO tight your best friend says he almost cums just getting his penis inside of her.

Now, after you have found out she is cheating on your best friend, you confront her about it and tell her you are going to tell your best friend what she has been doing.

So, she offers you the opportunity to jump in bed with her for your silence. Remember, this is no ordinary woman. She is the most incredible woman you have ever seen. A woman who you have lusted over since you first met her. A woman who is SO beautful she belongs in the movies.

What are you going to do?

Hook up with her after my best friend dumps her, lol.

No, seriously, although it might pain my soul to do so, I would have to turn her down. Two reasons. One, I don't sleep with my friends ex'es. Or their current girls. Two, I am not a believer in sleeping with someone I didn't like as a person. And she strikes me as a bit of a hoe.

So hard as it would be, I would turn her down. It might be a nice fantasy to think about later though.

tarbabee · 06-30-2006, 01:31 AM

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Originally Posted by JonPop

What if it's a couple that you are just casually acquainted with and they came over for wine and cheese and a soak in your Jacuzzi hot tub.
Secnario:

You are kicked back against one of the jets, you are totally taken with this gorgeous women. She's in a thong bikini, sitting next to you against another jet. You've had a couple of glasses of Cold Duck, and some really good Brie cheese. All relaxed and mellowed out. She reaches over and puts her hand on your dick and gives it a couple of playful squeezes. You look over and her husband isn't paying any attention. He turns his head and she quickly withdraws her hand and acts like nothing is happening. When he turns back, she finds your hand and puts it on her breast. By this time her husband is pretty drunk and getting louder. He gets out saying he has to go piss. When he does, she reaches over and grabs your cock again. This time she pulls it out of the side of your trunks and bends her head down under the water and puts it in her mouth. Holding her breath, she is giving you one great suck job.
When it is time for them to go, she hands you a folded piece of paper with a cell phone number and says to call her at 8:00 am because she want's to finish what she started. Remember, this women is a 10. This actually happened to me.
Did I call her and take advantage of her offer?____________________?

Getting more tempting..... but no. Especially if I were seeing someone because then I would also be cheating on her. I would be more tempted if I were single when it happened, but ultimately, still no

tarbabee · 06-30-2006, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by southern belle

Y'all are really some very loyal friends.

Now how about a twist to Jennifer's twist? What if the guy is just a casual friend and his wife or girl friend is a 10. Would you do her then?

If I was single at the time and felt like she would keep it quiet? Probably.

If I was involved with someone or I didn't trust her to keep quiet, probably not.

I have been with women where I thought no one would ever find out only to have men say to me years later "Dude! You slept with ______?" (fill-in-the blank) Never assume she wont tell......

southern belle · 06-30-2006, 02:47 PM

I don't think I could hop in bed with a complete stranger, regardless of how good looking he may be. I would be too afraid that he might hurt me or something.

Now if I knew the guy fairly well and he got me into the mood, that might be different.

No way I would hook up with him if he was dating someone I knew.

Betterman · 01-28-2007, 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by southern belle

I don't think I could hop in bed with a complete stranger, regardless of how good looking he may be. I would be too afraid that he might hurt me or something.

Now if I knew the guy fairly well and he got me into the mood, that might be different.

No way I would hook up with him if he was dating someone I knew.

What if it was Sean Connery, Mathew McConaughey, Micheal Douglas, Mel Gibson, Benjamin Bratt just to name a few. After all, these men ARE Sexy and Suave'.

jennifer · 01-28-2007, 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Betterman

What if it was Sean Connery, Mathew McConaughey, Micheal Douglas, Mel Gibson, Benjamin Bratt just to name a few. After all, these men ARE Sexy and Suave'.

Simply because they are movie stars doesn't preclude the fact that they would still be strangers to us. We have no idea how they are in private.

10 · 01-28-2007, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by jennifer

Simply because they are movie stars doesn't preclude the fact that they would still be strangers to us. We have no idea how they are in private.

I love Jen's rational side.

Überschwanz · 01-28-2007, 02:57 AM

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Originally Posted by jennifer

Simply because they are movie stars doesn't preclude the fact that they would still be strangers to us. We have no idea how they are in private.

Mel Gibson likes racist clown sex. At least that's the word on the street. I mean, come on, you know the guy's past and he seemed to like the facepaint in Braveheart a tad too much. Just sayin'.

Betterman · 01-28-2007, 04:32 PM

My daughter was at a Cheerleading Competition. They were putting glitter on there faces and flourescent highlighter. I mentioned to the Coach that I wanted some too. She just looked at me and said I would look like one of the people On The Strip.

jennifer · 01-28-2007, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Überschwanz

Mel Gibson likes racist clown sex. At least that's the word on the street. I mean, come on, you know the guy's past and he seemed to like the facepaint in Braveheart a tad too much. Just sayin'.

Nope, we know some things about a celebrity, but until you get to know them personally, without the media in their face, you will really not know what kind of a person they really are.

Überschwanz · 01-28-2007, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by jennifer

Nope, we know some things about a celebrity, but until you get to know them personally, without the media in their face, you will really not know what kind of a person they really are.

I was joking.