Betterman

So if Sean Connery asked you to an intimate dinner on his yacht. What would be the answer.

happy stud

My answer would be hell yes. Id love to know how much pussy he got from playing James Bond.

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notcute

wait...? -=[
i hate waiting...
the longest ive ever had to wait for a grl to put out was 1 month... it was horrible... imagine driving home from the next town over for a month with blue balls....

every other grl ive been with was pretty quick to give it up...
maybe that just says something about the grls ive been with...

10

It killed you to wait a month? Good Lord man.............it's the ones that make you wait that are worth it..............

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jennifer

Yes, I agree!! You guys just will not learn, will you? All of us females KNOW you guys want to screw us, so show us you want us BESIDES just for sex!! I assure you we will make it worth your wait!!

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slickwillie

I'll wait forever, but I'll still take care of the other ladies while waiting!

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You're such a giver slick.......

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Falcon

First I wouldn't confront my best friends girlfriend. That wouldn't do any good.
I would approach my best friend and break the new to him as gently as I could and then let him make his own decisions.
Under no circumstances would I date, fuck or do anything at all with his girlfriend.
Reason is good friends are hard to find and there are plenty of women out there wanting to get fucked by your's truly.

Falcon

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happy stud

Your a good guy Falcon. I agree 100%. Theres too much pussy out there for a guy to be fucking around on his buddys pussy.

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novice

Any man who cheats is indirectly saving the woman's life. Before you disagree, think about what you would want to do to a woman you loved if you found out she been cheating on you. Now think about how you would react. Now think about how you would react if you had cheated on her(whether or not she knows).

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novice

I told them both, I don't have any business in their relationship.

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novice

plea the 5th

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novice

I don't think you did.

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novice

my longest relationships lasted when the girl gave it up in 3 weeks or less. And they weren't slutty. Except one.

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kimashi

i feel kinda strange actually asking about this because i'm pretty okay with how things are with my situation, but i would like a female perspective on what she's been thinking. i'm pretty sure i know... but... i'll just shut up and ask.

ok this might take a bit...

ok, i dated this girl over a year ago now, we've remaind friends on and off, almost constantly on this last 6 months, infact shes my best friend and i'm hers. now about 8 months ago she started dating this much older man, over 1.5X her age, shes 21 hes 36, she loves him, they have a joint bank account, are planning on getting married, take care of his kid from his previous marriage, and own a 'house' together

now for the first part of there relationship, the first 2 months or so she still wasn't talking to me, but after we started talking again she started cheating on him a bit with me. after a while she started feeling guilty and we stopped doing anything sexual.

2 months ago when she moved into her house i helped her move along with her boyfriend, before this point him and i had been rather distant, you see i still want her, and i think he knows that she still wants me so where were kinda competition to each other and so where rather 'oh that guy' toward each other in my opinion.

well during this move her and i had a fight over something stupid and i told her i was going to tell him all about her cheating on him. so her response was to call him and tell him all about her cheating on him with me while i was in the room with him.

strangely he was okay with it wasn't angry at either of us and him and i are now rather good friends, her and i are still best friends and she still says she loves me dearly, and that if she wasn't with her boyfriend she'd most likly be with me instead.

sorry for the long back story but its an interesting situation. from a girls perspective do you girls think she really does love me that much, do you think i have a chance with her still? i've pretty much given up and am happy being both their friends.

basically i'm asking i suppose, do you think she loves me almost as much as she loves him as shes told me, and do you think i have any chance with her still?

ps: i'm the only person shes ever cheated on anyone with and this is the second guy shes done it with.

McB52

Kid, move on your being played!! She has the best of both worlds, what she has and what she wish she had.

Do yourself a favor, step away and when you do, tell her its either him or me. Then see how she reacts...my bet she will lean to him..all the comforts of home.

You see, you are "boy toy", she gets to have fun with you but she will always go back to him. I don't think you have a snow balls chance in hell for a long term relationship.

Do yourself a favor and move on...she is so playing you.

good luck!

southern tz

This girl is only 21 and is extremely immature, even for a 21 year old! If she's cheating on her current bf, that tells you quite a bit about her character. There are plenty of good women out there. Stay away from this one, unless you are just looking for a piece of ass or looking to have your heart broken!!

kimashi

oh she's already broken my heart a few times, she has caused more pain to me than anyone else. but i also want her more than anyone else.. and thats most of the pain right there... like i said. i'm kinda fine with the situation right now.

its a bit more complex than i typed it up to be, i've had a very interesting life since i started dating 3 years ago.. i'm rather inexperienced in... everything dating. i've had to learn fast. but basically after we dated she stopped talking to me for a while, and then got pregnant by some other guy, she started talking to me again, but i was taken by some other girl, and she was consuming ALL of my time so she went to this guy for comfort helping her threw her choice about her pregnancy, and they started dating. it easially could have been me. she also has some reservations about dating this older guy, like that he's older he doesn't have a job right now shes supporting both of them and paying for the morgage on the house and for food and bills and everything. on top of that she want her baby's dad, when she has a baby, to be younger to be able to keep up with the child. shes seeing how he cant really even keep up with his kid right now, and his child still in the beginning of grade school.

so while yes i agree with you, shes kinda playing me, but i'm also egging her into cheating on him with me, thats as much my fault as it is hers. she also hasn't done anything sexual with me in the last 2 months sense telling him about her cheating on him with me and moving into her new house.

happy stud

Man I aint being an asshole but you need to move on. This girl is completely fucked up. You said yourself that your inexperienced at dating. well I aint. Trust me man there are so many fine women out there. all you got to do is get out there and meet them. She got pregnant by another guy and is now living with another guy and you aint getting any regular pussy? Even if you were Id still say the same thing. Move on. Before you know it she will give you a little bait pussy. Thats what we say down here in the South when a woman baits some sap by giving him some pussy and then she uses his ass like constantly asking for money, using his car, etc. Fuck. Run not walk as fast as you can from this one man.

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I couldn't agree more with what studly wrote. She is playing you bro!!! Plain and simple. Move the fuck on. She cheats with you, has Mr. 30 something at her disposal and also got knocked up by another guy? Dude, wake up bro!!

Sorry, but she's totally fucked up and needs a therapist more than a boyfriend.

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kimashi

damn it, i was hoping you wouldn't agree with me, but there you all go doing it. yes i know i need to move on... but i cant seem to... i've had 3 GF since i dated her over a year ago, but i just cant seem to stop thinking about her. part of what makes it hard is i still want to be friends with her. ::sigh::

10

Hey, be her friend all you want. But, draw the line at "just friends". Don't get involved intimately with her............a girl like her is going to end up hurting you. As long as the men around her continue to allow her to treat them like her personal play toys, she's going to continue using each of you for what she can.

And besides, you mean to tell me your self esteem is that fucken low that you can't get another girl?

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JonPop

Everybody's forgetting what a worthless asshole that guy is. No job, she's supporting both of them, i.e. his kid and paying the mortgage on the house, the bills, the food. This guys either got a huge dick or she is just stupid as fuck.

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Even if he has a huge dick, it will only take him as far. Whether he has a massive donkey punch or a tiny peanut, one things is quite clear: She is STUPID.

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You Are Very Original. LMAO, yet very true.

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southern belle

I must admit, why do you ask our opinion if you have already made up your mind you are going to continue to see her? I pray that she gets some much needed counseling and although it is admirable that you want to be there as a friend for her, you still have your own life to live. I think your obsession in wanting to be "friends" with this girl is preventing you from going out and finding someone else.

Überschwanz

I think this is one of those situations where someone asks for advice hoping that one, just one person, will agree with them and allow them to say, "Yeah, I knew I did the right thing."

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10

I think your right on the money with this one Ube................

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kimashi

close, but is the other way. i want some one to tell me that she'll dump his ass and come be mine again, thou i'm quite positive thats not going to happen.

.... thou almost as a response to the original post of this... she dumped him last night and is taking a break from him. she's gonna be single for a while.



and yes would be the answer on that one. i'm 21 and didn't have my first GF until 17(end month of 17).. and have only had 4 in that time...(one twice so 5 if you want to count that)i also just kinda clicked with this girl, have yet to see anything like it again...

bozoballz

You can stop thinking about her and you can move on but you'd rather suffer. You'd rather choose to be lazy and remain in the comfort of your discontent instead of opening to new possibilities.

If I were you I'd ask myself why I can't let go of her? Why I keep going back? Why I keep holding on wishing she'll turn her thought towards me? Why I am grasping so hard? My guess its rooted in a lack of self-esteem on your part and a nice set of t and a on her part.

southern tz

You have to remember that you are only 21 years old. You are still very young. My advise to you is, although it may be difficult at first, go and meet as many girls as you can. Not necessarily to go out with all of them, but just to become comfortable in talking to them. Don't get discouraged if you get rejected some. I know every guy thinks he is God's gift to women, but the truth is we are not attracted to every guy we see. So don't take it personally. Just continue to meet as many women as you can. Show them your personality and that you are a fun guy! We are not concerned how big your dick is! We just want you to be nice to us and show us a good time. Join a health club, church, learn to play tennis or some other sport and you will soon be meeting more women than you think! Good luck!!

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kimashi:

Look dude, I know where you're at because I was you once upon a time. In fact, I met my now ex wife when I was 21. Looking back on it now, she's not at all the quality of woman that should ever have been introduced to my life BUT, due to my own lack of self esteem at the time, I took her because I didn't feel I was worth any better than that.

Times changed, I'm older, wiser, better looking and better built. I'm very selective in the women I date. Women want a guy who's confident, self assured, goal oriented, has a personality and is just fun to be around. But, before you can be that guy bro, you have to look deep within yourself and love yourself first. Once you achieve true internal happiness, then the women will start to come. Guarantee it. Women don't want some needy, "woe is me" guy.............they want a guy who can take them or leave them and is perfectly content on being by himself. This process doesn't happen over night either, in fact, it took me 16 long years to get to be where I am now in my life. But, I'm a very confident, self assured, good lookin' dude who has just begun to hit his stride and get in the game. And it won't be long before the women start to come..........guarantee it.

You need to define and validate yourself for the man you are and not worry about having some chick validate you or give you meaning as a man. I hope this helps bro.

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happy stud

You go out every night for a solid month to different bars and clubs and you will meet someone. Might not fuck her on the first date but you will gain more confidence talking to women this way. Its like swimming. Doesnt do you a damn bit of good talking about how your gonna do it. You gotta actually do it. Same thing with women. You gotta get out and start meeting them and talking to them. Some of em will be bitches and thats ok. Better to know that up front so you can move to the next one. Theres no way in hell if you do this for a solid month and you wont meet anyone. Theres alot of women that you can click with but you gotta make the first move.

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McB52

Kid, there is a saying "let it go, if it was meant to be, it will return"...something to that nature! It does sound like your looking for someone to tell you, its ok, keep plugging away, she will be back.

All who have responded to your query have given the same advise. I hope people close to you have given similar advise. Here is my prediction, she will come running back to you, you'll get closer, maybe form a relationship, the baby will come, and BANG! You'll have a family, major responsibilities, bills, maybe marriage(who knows)..a bigger hook. Getting the picture?

At 21, that is a major, giant step. Trust me, been there done that! Time will go on, someone will feel trapped or grow in a different direction, my bet, she will move on to the next stop. Leaving you with a bigger whole in your heart. Oh, she might take the kid with her, bigger whole.

I'm preaching now...so I'll stop. Your 21, take a trip, clear your head. Most importantly...you go an experience life, we all have in some fashion. When you fix your self esteem, then and only then think about a permanent relationship. At this time in your life a wife and baby should be the last thing your thinking. Start thinking about just getting laid(use protection) and having fun.

Good Luck to you kid, what ever you decide, best of luck!!

youngfacehov

Hey, I can feel your pain because I've just recently gotten over a situation similar bro. I met my first girlfriend ever in Junior Highschool and we've been off and on ever since, up until last year when she was dishonest and two-timing me for the second time (The first time was with another guy and I forgave her and gave her another chance). I thought for sure I was done with her, and she felt she made the best choice by chosing that guy, until she got her Karma when the guy began to mentally abuse her and basically raped her. After that she sent me emails upon emails begging me back. I did not talk to her for 3 months straight (which has been the longest I ever had) before I started to open up to her again. Sure we tried for alittle, had sex but I did not feel anything anymore, neither did she. I felt like as soon as I was done I wanted her to leave. She began to distance herself from me again but I was persistant to get back together with her. She totally stopped calling, texting, emailing again and I kept persuing her. I confronted her about it and she blew up and said to me that she is busy with her new life and she has no room for me in it (during the three months that we weren't talking she signed a record deal as well). She also said she did not want to date she wanted to be single and concentrate on her music career. But I still bothered her every now and then trying to get her to even text me a "hello, how you doing" or something. (if you ever have to ask someone for affection, they're definately not the one for you).
Two weeks ago I decided to ask her again to be honest and tell me how many guys she has messed with since she knew me and she slipped and said another name I was unfamiliar with. Turns out, its the new guy she is dating. All this time she just did not want to date me but she never told me the truth. At that point I said to myself that I needed to let her go for good. Well I have been saying that for years but could not find myself to do it. First thing I had to be honest with myself and say that I do not love her, I lost love for her from the second time she cheated. It was just a teritorial thing. and thats what I believe you have as well. Guys hate rejection more than women do and take it real personal. They want to be "the one" all the time, even if you do not love that girl/woman. Its a pride thing. You feel he's beating you at being a man.
I've been there, but its not worth it. I'm 22 years old and realize that I have my whole life ahead of me, but only ONE life. Everyday that I waste obsessing myself over 1 grain of sand is a waste of time that I will never get back.
There are more women than men in this world, you just got to keep moving and NEVER PUT ALL YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET. That is to say, never give a woman all of you. Because in the real world, there is no such thing as equal love. There is no way to measure love. One person will ALWAYS love the other person more than the other. The one who loves less will have the control, and the one that loves more will have a greater chance of getting hurt. (This is all my opinion, so if you find a girl you feel you can give your all to, do what you want, this is just the rules I now follow).
I know its very hard to let someone go, part of the reason I couldnt for a long time is because I was inactive. I would not go out. I would just sit home and mope. Once you go out and see the world for what its worth, you'll know that its a waste to waste your thoughts on someone as selfish as my ex and that chick you were dealing with. Trust me, from peer to peer, you can do better.