pumping and sex..

smallcock · 04-08-2007, 06:06 AM

this is my first post here and ive never pumped befor. My cock is below avrage and my wife has told me it dosent plesure her any more. I know that when pumped a cock is much larger than when you releas the pressure, So my queastion is, after ive pumped for a while to where im able to see a noticeable gain in the tube could i strech a cock ring over the tube and then slide it off onto my cock befor releasing the pressure and keep all the size i had in the tube long enough to have sex? would a cock ring keep all the blood in the penis? if so it shoud work, should it not?

Loki · 04-08-2007, 03:28 PM

Welcome to BetterMan,
I wouldn't pump just yet SC, you need to get conditioned first and most important take your time and work your way up.

Start off with this routine A Beginners routine for NEWBIES. and follow it to the letter. We are all here to help you, you will have many questions, don't be afraid to ask.

Many of us were below normal, myself incuded, but with time and much work you will grow.

Just take your time and don't get hurt.

Loki

JonPop · 04-08-2007, 04:18 PM

smallcock. First, welcome to the Betterman. Second..Your wife told you straight out that you don't pleasure her anymore? How long have you been married. That was pretty cold. My wife always told me that my size was fine but hinted that if she had a choice, she wished it was a little wider. I started off at a very small size, 4 3/4", found PE and now 4 years later am at 8 1/2".
Ask your wife if she would be happy if you could get longer and wider. Tell her that you have found a site that will help you grow. Take Loki's advice and get started. What are your starting stats? Don't jump into pumping just to please your wife, you risk injury.

SonicCelt · 04-08-2007, 10:43 PM

Welcome smallcock,

Guys, I think we just got a 911 call.

Can you give us more info aon your relationship/wife/marriage small?

Loki · 04-08-2007, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by SonicCelt

Welcome smallcock,

Guys, I think we just got a 911 call.

Can you give us more info on your relationship/wife/marriage small?

I couldn't agree with you more Sonic, I was quite alarmed by what his wife said to him too.

Bigdz2123 · 04-08-2007, 11:27 PM

Welcome fellow betterman. The one thing i would suggest while your penis is going to be growing over the next couple of months and years, study up on how to eat pussy like a pro. Trust me, if you cant sattisfy her with the dick, learn another way so she doesnt get bored with you completly. Also try to be more intimate, sex isnt always about pounding the poontang, if you married, its more about love and expressing that love in a sexual way.

Trust me bro, women love sex just as much as men, they just usually dont annouce it as much. They love getting head as much as we do. I think the main key is to make her feel sexy and wanted.

smallcock · 04-09-2007, 01:36 AM

thanks for the replys guys, im not sure on my stats but id say about 4.25 in lenth and 4 in grith. we have been together almost 3 years and married almost 2. we currantle have a baby on the way and our sex life has stopped. my cock got the job done when we first hooked up but she was a virgin and we were both 20. for about the last year and a half my meat hasent done it for her plus ive gained weight and that is keeping me from going as far in too. I am dieting as we speak but not just for that but to be in good health too. if this other stuff really works ill try it too. im well awear that expecting permenant gains from pumping is far feched but i know that while pumped you are much longer and thicker and was wondering if puting on a cock ring befor letting off the presure will let you keep all the grith and lenth you had in the tube.... thanks you all...

Loki · 04-09-2007, 02:13 AM

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Originally Posted by smallcock

Im well aware that expecting permenant gains from pumping is far feched but i know that while pumped you are much longer and thicker and was wondering if puting on a cock ring befor letting off the presure will let you keep all the grith and lenth you had in the tube.... thanks you all...

You can have permenant gains from pumping, but you have got to do jelqs to make it happen, just pumping and using a ring is asking for trouble untill you get conditioned. So please start this routine A Beginners routine for NEWBIES.

smallcock · 04-09-2007, 02:47 AM

i am starting the routine and im ordering the pump in a few weeks. Im just asking if what im sujesting with the ring is possible?

rocky6535 · 04-09-2007, 03:29 AM

I can't understand how what you're suggesting is possible because a pump seals itself to your groin in order to work. Once the seal is broken, the pressure releases. That's the mechanics of a pump. I pray you find a way to work this out, because the situation that you have described is a nightmare for me. Good luck man...

smallcock · 04-09-2007, 03:35 AM

rocky, i would strech the ring over the tube befor i started pumping then just befor removeng the tube i would slide the ring off the end of the tube onto my groin, and im hopeing that when i relese the presure the ring will do its job befor i lost much size.... Maybe???

Überschwanz · 04-09-2007, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by smallcock

rocky, i would strech the ring over the tube befor i started pumping then just befor removeng the tube i would slide the ring off the end of the tube onto my groin, and im hopeing that when i relese the presure the ring will do its job befor i lost much size.... Maybe???

I agree with Rocky. That sounds really tough to pull off.

Betterman · 04-10-2007, 01:01 AM

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Originally Posted by smallcock

rocky, i would strech the ring over the tube befor i started pumping then just befor removeng the tube i would slide the ring off the end of the tube onto my groin, and im hopeing that when i relese the presure the ring will do its job befor i lost much size.... Maybe???

I've used a stretchy silicone ring before. They work as the description states. I've fit them over a 2x9 cylinder with no problems. They will keep you at a fuller size. This link is what I bought awhile back. Although, after you let her grip you for awhile the lymphatic fluid will diminish a bit. Wish you my best.

http://www.lapdist.com/Merchant2/mer...egory_Code=all

growerfun · 04-10-2007, 05:15 AM

Will you at least agree to not try anything like this after like a month of doing your full PE regimen? I understand your desire to get bigger (especially after what your wife said to you), but I would really hate to see you hurt yourself, man. You'll hear it a thousand more times during your time with us, but please, take it easy doing this stuff. You'll be cruising on an "experienced PE'er" routine before you know it. Trust me, your gains will come fast in the beginning, just like strength training - the fastest gains are always in the beginning!

Just be careful, and if you have to think about whether or not it's a good idea to stretch another hour, to jelq another 25 reps, or to increase time or pressure with your pump, then DON'T DO IT!