southern belle

I was curious as to how y'all flirt with women. What are some of the things y'all say to them?

bozoballz

I flirt with compliments about her beauty.... like "You have the richest most beautiful blue eyes I have ever seen."

Like... seeing your picture Ms. Belle I thought you had a gorgeous, strong yet delicate set of shoulders... and your arms were slender and graceful lending an exquisite aire to your whole posture. Beautiful woman indeed. :)

...okay, I'm embarrassing myself a little here but you asked!

EDIT: looking back on this post "sophisticated" aire was not the word I wanted, "exquisite" is more like it.
Exquisite: delicious, of consummate excellence, compelling the highest admiration.
Sophisticated: very refined and subtle, with qualities produced by special knowledge and skill.

Sophisticated is better suited to describing Ms. Belle's character, exquisite her form.

stranger

In my (albeit limited) experience, flirting has little to do with what you actually say.

Open body language, being confident, smiling, making them laugh etc seem to work pretty well.

Most girls will see through the usual flattery routine!

10

I'd have to say that I'm with stranger on this one. I don't put myself out there in a cheesy fashion. I can't help but think that most women would be turned off by that. I'm just myself. I use my personality, my smile, my ability to make her laugh with my dry humor and perhaps pay a compliment to her on her beauty or her attire.

I personally believe that these simple things go alot further than some really bad one liners.......

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italiananglo69

ok does that line really work for you Bozo?

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happy stud

I tell em they look damn good in their jeans. Damn good. But I bet they look even better without those damn jeans.

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bozoballz

^Damn straight.

Does it work for me? Well I was serious about what I said to Ms. Belle, let's ask her how it made her feel? Ms. Belle?

If I'm truly attracted to a woman and tell them exactly how I feel, with the right words, at the right time... well yes it works. Its less about "picking her up" and more about the dance between a man and woman. Men and women WANT to be together; we need to connect the dots. Honest flattery starts the process... then you drop something that will make her pussy sweat ;) Right stud?

Look at studlys lines... same thing... some flattery followed by some seduction.

Falcon

I flirt by keeping the conversation light and funny.

How do you like to be flirted with Southern Belle?


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Betterman

I just be sincere.

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sikdogg

I give complements sparingly when flirting with women... like Falcon says, i try to keep things light and funny. Giving to many complements or too strong of a complement makes you look desperate to women. I try to talk about everything but her appearance until i'm ready for the close. If anything, i may give complements about her friends before i give one to her... for example, once i've made contact and started dialog with a chick i'll say something like "... so, what else do you have going for you besides your hot friends?" The key is to get her to talk more than you... Once you get her talking, you're in. If she's not talking twice as much as you are then you're working too hard. JMO...

stranger

That line is pure gold!

Almost no girl my age will respond well to the "you have beautiful eyes" routine unless it is exactly the right moment.

10

I think also that most women can spot insincerity in a heart beat. If they sense you're line is loaded with b.s., you're done.

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southern belle

It depends. If I knew you, then I would think your flirting was sweet. If you saw me for the first time and said that to me at a restaurant or at the mall, I would think you were just hitting on me.

southern belle

I like for guys to do as you as you suggested and just be casual. I like guys to flirt without making blatent sexual innuendo, especially if I do not know them or know them very well. I like a guy complimenting me on my clothes, my eyes, my hair, etc.

southern belle

You definitely have that right. If she is not talking a lot, you either turned her off or you make her uncomfortable.

bozoballz

Maybe a little of both?

want8

I like the old " God you look familiar". Most of the time I get, have we met somewhere before? I will say, I don't know but if we didn't I sure am glad we finally did. Usually gets a laugh and gets them to talking. Then I will start with the compliments.

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Loki

This one just worked for me, I was comming out of a store the other night and I saw this lady with a young child, this lady was with a friend of heres that knew my son, she spoke to Matt and we both walked over to her to say hi. We, the lady with the child came ove too, I said hi, smiled at her "with eye contact", I then started talking to the little girl that was being held by the lady in question, I said you have the prettiest eyes, just like your mommies, the lady said, she's not mine, Laurie" the mom, I said, wow................she looks just like you, very pretty, blonde hair and eye's that would melt any guy, she should be your daughter, you two look just alike!

The next day, I scored a date for tomorrow night 12-01-07, the lady is very hot, she is 38 and I'm 52 "yes she knows my age"

Lucky me

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JonPop

So, who did the child belong to? Does this lady have any kids?

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southern belle

Good for you, Loki. Smiling, eye contact and giving compliments to a young child were very good things to do.

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I've often wondered if that would work with me. Since I am a single dad and am ALWAYS out in public with my two girls doing this, that and the other, I've often wondered how many women actually take notice of me with my two kids and think it's awesome that I take such an active role in their lives.

It's almost like taking a new puppy to the park...........women LOVE puppies. And that usually applies to kids. Isn't it safe to presume that women find it sexy when a single dad is seen being attentive to his children and taking care of them?

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Betterman

In the introduction, reach out to shake her hand. Finish with a tiny, extra squeeze. This should not be tight but merely a surge of energy. Possibly use the other hand to cover and lightly brush her fingers. Then let go. Doing this signals that you are warm, confident, and that there is a definite attraction. This also allows for the physical barrier to be let down abit. If she responds to you from your hand shake. You may then be allowed to talk with her in her "Personal Space." Closer than a couple feet or so. Also, during the conversation mention her name. Have good eye contact. When the conversation is almost over make sure to mention her name again. As she is walking off do a double take glance. Hopefully with her also making a double take. A very good sign.

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southern belle

Yes, but is this really flirting or making a good first impression with good manners?

Falcon

I think women love it when dad is active with his children. Also, there are a lot of women that if they like you in the first place children aren't a problem at all.

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Unless of course they want some of their own with you.............then it becomes a slight problem.

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Falcon

This is true, so very true.

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happy stud

Hey Betterman are you subconsciously trying to get the damn woman to see how you want her to squeeze your dick with how your describing how you should squeeze her hand?

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Betterman

I would say both. The flirting would be a combination of your body language, attentiveness and conversation. The acquaintal handshake with a que of interest would be just the initial attempt to see if the Lady is even interested.

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Betterman

Probably...wishful thinking. A positive attitude never hurt anyone.

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southern belle

Have any of y'all ever thought to flirt by leaving a small teddy bear or small box of candy on her desk?

bozoballz

I was thinking about this thread. I would say there are 2 ways, or mindsets, to go about gettin' it on. 1) is actively seeking it out, going out someplace with an intention to pick up a girl and then acting on that intention... buying drinks, chatting up, giving out ph #'s, what have you. 2) is not worrying about it one way or the other and just going on with your life. However, while doing this one is always on the ball, so to speak, being aware of opportunities. Loki's situation was a fine example of this. If a situation arises where a girl comes into the picture the flirting and seduction can be very natural and not forced. Where in the first situation it is more contrived. Personally I've never been too interested in "picking up" girls as much as I've just waited for the opportunity to arise... then picked them up. Anyway, trying to make it happen seems to make it not happen... for me anyway, "when your reachin' just pushes it further away..."

Thoughts?

Just to turn this around a little what are some of the signs of a woman flirting? Belle? I'd say one is when she stands rather close and puffs out her chest or, even better, lightly grazes her breast against you. ahhh

bozoballz

ooo thats excellent... come to think of it, no, I really never thought of that. But its a good one. In fact I've been flirted with this way with the girl buying me small gifts. Guess my skull is a bit too thick. I usually have to be told to buy something, lol... thats awful, I need to do better.

southern belle

You bring up a good point. I think flirting can be different things to different people. I personally do not equate flirting with picking up someone. I think it is more you are trying to make sure someone you know a little or a lot, notices you more. So, you are trying to do/say some things to get their attention.

As far as women flirting, I think they generally will smile much, much more to a guy they like and will make eye contact much, much more. Some women are more aggressive than others. So, some might do what you suggested and lightly graze their breasts if they like you.

bozoballz

How about when a girl teases you in some way. I've noticed sometimes when a girl is interested in me she will make fun of me or poke at me in some way to get a reaction... which then I usually act extremely offended and tackle her to the ground and give her noogies.

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You know, this is interesting. I remember years ago I had a friend who worked at the same place I used to. I didn't leave on the best of terms so when she quit, she was given the cold shoulder treatment just as I was. So, I had a nice flower arrangement sent to her and I made sure the florist signed my name to the card so that when the others in the office read it, they knew it was from me...........someone they just loved so much.

In fact, I would've dated this girl. But I was with my now ex at the time and she was with different boyfriends on and off. Now, she's on the verge of divorcing the loser husband she married 8 years ago.

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