southern tz

I have been curious about something for a long time regarding the size of a man's penis. If you asked your girlfriend or wife did she think your penis was long/thick enough, would you want her to tell you the complete truth? Of course, we usually say, "Your penis is just fine the way it is or it's big enough for me."

When I say the complete truth, I do not mean her being rude or disrespectful about your size. But would you be upset if she said, "Yes, I wish you were about another inch longer." Or, I wish you were as thick as a banana (or zucchini or whatever)."

Would that bother you if you REALLY knew exactly what she thought of your size? This doesn't mean she doesn't want having sex with you anymore or that she doesn't enjoy it, she is just answering your question honestly.

stranger

That's a tough question.

To me, that's similar to asking your girl about past sexual exploits.

It's not for everyone.

I don't know if I would want an honest answer.

Marty5379

If she said I could not please her, then that would bother me if it were coming from my wife. But if she said it after her 10th orgasm, I would not give a damn.

If it was a piece of blonde or big titty teacher pussy I'd picked up at an elementary school in Louisiana, it would break my fucking heart.

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W.M.P.

OK...this is gonna be a long, multi-dimensional answer. I personally wouldn't ask, to be quite honest. Even though I am a tiny bit above average, the very fact that I'm here says a lot about my being aware that I'm not near a size that would make my girl (or any girl) feel "stuffed" to capacity in terms of both depth and girth, so I don't need to hear it from anybody cause it's something I know quite clearly. I had just tried jelquing for the 1st time right around the time that I started fucking the girl I'm with right now. We got our groove with the good ole' missionary and sex was great right away; I could feel myself nice and deep in there and I could fuck her however fast & hard she wanted for as long as she wanted. However, the first time we did it doggie, I thought to myself "Dude, better get on those penis exercises cause you really got your work cut out for you on this one. You're not being even half as effective behind her as when on missionary." To me, my girl's body is "to die for" and the view from behind is simply spectacular. However, she is as tall as me, with quite an athletic build...which means that banging her doggie is more of a workout than bangin' my ex who was quite shorter and smaller than me. Why I bring this up? Because physical exertion will take quite a toll on the size of a man's erection. The 6.5 x 6 boner that was throbbing at the begining, will not be as robust both in length and girth as a result of just working your ass out to push & pull that booty hard and fast like a pro. Now, if you add to that the fact that I HAVE TO wear a condom for her, the "size" factor will suffer from many angles. My girl said the other day "you're kind of big" while we were getting ready for a romp. "KIND OF" big......why would I wanna ask any further from her? So that I can hear in as many words how her ex had a tool like Peter North's? No need Wanna know what having her tell me she wishes I was longer & thicker would do to my libido? The same thing it would do for her libido if I told her that her legs and butt could use a couple of hours a week on the Stairmaster. I'm doing PE because I wanna reach deeper, I wanna get a tighter feel in there. She'll be a lucky lady, cause she'll be enjoying the fruits of the hard work that I'm putting towards making better of what I have. The way I see it, with enough dedication and discipline, any guy out there can have a better cock, better body, better job, career, ect. Now, no matter how big your cock, ripped your abs, and fat your wallet...if you're an asshole, you're screwed, cause there's no exercises to fix that. I know for sure that good women do not measure a man's worth by the size of his cock. I might still have ways to go before reaching what I set out to do for myself the day I found this cool bunch here at Betterman, but if my judgement serves me right and my woman is the kind of woman I believe her to be, I'll bet the farm she'll tell you she already got what she was looking for.

StrokerAce69

I am a firm believer in the "don`t ask, don`t tell " policy. If your fragile male ego can`t handle the truth, don`t ask. I myself as a younger man made the decision to ask my wife that question, and what answer did I get? The same answer all of you have gotten that asked that question. Unless your significant other has been a nun, she has PROBABLY seen a bigger dick than yours. Kill yourself, hold it against her? Fuck no! YOU asked. Does she stew in bed at night because you have seen bigger titties or had better pussy? probably (surely) not! I think what W.M.P. said was right on the money. When you find someone whom you truly care about and she cares about you, I know the size of your penis is not going to make a shit to her as long as you make her happy. Besides I sleep just fine, I have a WICKED tongue.

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stranger

Great post, WMP.

StrokerAce69

Sorry I am back, I started watching t.v. and this popped into my head. What do YOU think truthfully about your b/f cock? Would you answer him honestly?

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W.M.P.

Thanks, stranger.

It is what it is. Just like Stroker said: Chances are she's seen bigger, just like you've seen bigger boobs, perkier butts, prettier/tighter/tastier pussies, ect. The truth is that all this stuff, as nice as it is, in the end they're all just nice EXTRAS; that's all they are. I've seen my girl's ex.The dude is taller, leaner, more muscular and just all-around better looking than me...and probably has a dick as big as my arm. And guess what? After almost 3yrs of nothing but nice physical attributes, she couldn't take it anymore and dumped his ass cause the guy was as much a self-absorbed, narcissistic, extremely insecure, jealous-to-the-point-of-being-psycho, boring, inmature, inconsiderate, uneducated, low-class and downright idiot as he was an All-American studly beefcake. The dude was a DOUCHEBAG. In fact she's told me how, even though the guy was a hunk, sex was not that great because he was more concerned on positioning himself in such a way that would allow him to watch his muscles flexing in the mirror while they had sex instead of focusing on pleasuring her. So who did she dump Mr. Hunkyboy for? Good ole' Average ME!! WoooooHoooooo!!! Fellas, women surely are quite nice to tell you that your tool "is just fine" even if it's only half the size of a previous guy. But I gotta say that it is true when they say that physical attributes are not the most important thing they look for in a man. If physical attributes where the most important thing for a woman, my girl would still be with that DOUCHEBAG. Also, from the feedback that I got from her during our 1st week having sex, there's lot of truth about the whole "It's not the gun but the shooter what matters." The 3rd time we did it, by the end she was almost hallucinating; shaking, laughing&crying at once, knees buckling. To quote her own words: "Oh my God! I feel like I just got schooled!"

10

You know what, there will always be guys who are bigger than you, and others who will be alot smaller than you.

Me personally, I know what I've got danglin' between my muscular thighs so I'm not the least bit worried about what my girl would think. Chances are it'll certainly be the thickest thing she's ever had.........:)

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lifted

Iwould not ask her. This would taint the relationship. to be honest I would be more concerned about finding undiscovered "G" spots. A hard erection is more important than a big soft dick.

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happy stud

You fuckers need to learn how to use whatever a woman tells you to your advantage. If she says your dick could stand an extra inch or so then tell her youll fuck her a couple more times to make up for the smaller size.

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10

And what's so wrong W.M.P. to watch your muscles flex while your having sex?

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W.M.P.

Well brah...I love mirrors to look at my girl from every angle while I'm at it and look at both of us while telling myself "Hell fuckin' YES!! This is where it's at!! This is IT!!" But to take the focus away from my girl's pleasure because I'm too busy wondering "Hmm...it looks like I should work my traps a little more." Naaahh!!

10

I can just see it now. Mirror on the ceiling and while she's stradling your johnson, your thinkin' "yeah, my chest needs more definition"............funny stuff!!! LOL

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StrokerAce69

Only one muscle I like to watch flexing during sex..... Her little pink butthole while I am punching her squish doggy style.

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W.M.P.

Damn right, brah!

Hostile 17

I wanna know the uncensored truth. Especially if it is a goal that I feel I can reach. If she wants 1 more inch... I'm on it. Fat as my wrist? I’m workin' on it baby! If it's something I could never achieve then it's time to head to the sex shop to get a toy to satisfy her while I'm working to be the best "Betterman" that I can be.
To be honest, I actually enjoy knowing the other guy was bigger than me because 9 times outta 10 the dude had a big dick and didn’t know how to use it. My girl has confirmed this point on many occasions. So I make it a point to fuck every time like it’s my last. Orgasms for everyone!!! Like I’m throwing Christmas candy from a float. WooHoooo!
C'mon guys, you know what I’m talking about. There’s nothing like seeing the look on your new girls face when she has that first surprising orgasm! "Holy Shit, That was incredible!"
Big dick, little dick... doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to use it.
This is what will make us the most dangerous fuckers (literally) on the planet... guys who now have big dicks AND the knowledge to use it.

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Hairtrigger

Don't ask, don't tell. Because you really don't want to know. This subject has torn, ripped and shredded many relationships. It appears there is no end in sight to it's relentless carnaged path of destruction as countless men wash ashore in the wake of their " I've got a small dick" insecurities.

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StrokerAce69

Nikki? You haven`t answered my question?

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southern tz

We have been dating for a long time, so I think I know him well enough to answer him honestly. My bf is almost 7 inches long, so he is plenty long enough for me. I am convinced reading all the posts in this forum, that length is definitely a guy thing.

Now I will admit I would like my bf to be a little thicker. I have read quite a bit in this forum and have had some e-mails from some of y'all regarding girth. I have been very diplomatic in getting him to do things like jelqing and clamping. I actually help him with clamping.

It is a big turn-on for both of us when the clamp comes off and his penis is about 1/2" thicker. We both realize it is temporary but we take advantage of it and fuck like rabbits while he still has this temporary gain.

So, he is motivated to do these exercises because he likes seeing his penis thicker just as much as I like feeling it! So, there are subtle ways a woman can suggest to her guy without it being offensive or ego shattering.

StrokerAce69

I think it is great you two have a mutual desire and willingness to engage in PE. My wife knows I do this and thought I was CRAZY for starting this, but even she is starting to see (and feel) the results. I tried to get her to help me upload some pictures tonight for the contest, but Mrs. Stroke said she was uncomfortable with me posting pictures of my junk on the web. Oh well, she IS my girl and I love her so I respect her wishes. Keep your b/f working out. Why don`t you get him to register?

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10

"Punching her squish"????? Oh man, that's good. Never heard that one before. Funny shit bro..............

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10

"Like throwing Christmas candy from a float"????? Holy shit Hostile buddy, you are too fucking much man LMAO!!!!

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Chino_D_PR

The average depth of a woman's pussy is more or less around 6 inches. If your girlfriend or woman your fucking tells you directly that your not "big" enough chances are that (A) her pussy is deeper than the avergae woman (B) she's had way too many cocks in her pussy and that left it way too loose or (C) well mayb you really aren't big enough for HER ( doesn't apply to every other woman).Or it could be (D) she's had so much sex in her life that she can't even really feel it anymore. (A) and (B) are more likely the reason, but heck if I know I'm not a woman. I know I sound a bit sexist, but trust me I'm not, I love all women and by that I mean that I try to score with almost every girl I cross paths with.

Überschwanz

You sound like such an expert. Vaginas don't permanently stretch out from a big cock though.

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StrokerAce69

I aim to please bro.

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