jennifer

Over the last few weeks I have read many comments in different threads regarding “casual sex” versus “in love sex”.



Some members have no problem having sex with someone they have just met or barely know, while other members would prefer to have a relationship before having sex.



Neither position is right or wrong. It is a personal choice based on one’s beliefs and morals.



Personally, I think we as human beings need sex to some degree in our lives. Sex helps us from a physical, mental, emotional and physiological perspective. As a female, I would not hop in bed with a stranger for obvious safety reasons.



However, in the past I have had casual sex with someone I have known for a few years. He dated one of my best friends for a little while. She told me how great he was in bed. Long after they had broken up, when the time presented itself, I had a fling with him. The sex was incredible! However, I had no intentions of wanting to get into any type of relationship with him.



If I were divorced with kids, I would still want to have sex in my life. Yes, I would be very concerned about what my kids would think and therefore would not have sex while they were in the house. It is certainly very kind and considerate to think about others, especially one’s children, but we must still think about ourselves, also.



I would like to get your opinions as to your feelings regarding “casual sex” and “in love sex”.

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Jennifer, beloved Moderator @BetterMan.
Born June 10th, 1980.
Died in an automobile accident October 8th, 2007.
God Bless and RIP. JonPop