| For myself there is no real difference, sex is sex. It can be teasing, romantic, or rough, but that doesn't depend on me being in love. When I am having sex with someone I concentrate on that energy, and trying to drive my partner crazy, I am not dreaming of roses or hearing harps playing for sure ;) Of course the before and afterwards are different if you are in love.
Maybe I am just a callous b*stard? But I wonder if there is a difference to most guys? I know my ex-wife and current fiancee love to keep the feeling going after sex. So I am conscious of that (now;) and go with it. Otherwise, I would be up and going back to renovations, or hit the gym, or whatever right afterwards. Learned that is not the best thing to do... |