| I tend to agree. I learned alot from being on this forum in terms of how I might have been perceived by my ex. Back in marital days, sex was sex. We hooked up, did it and would go back to watching the tube or whatever..........there was no gazing long into each other's eyes and whispering sweet nothings. We'd fuck and then go on with our lives.
BUT, while sometimes just having casual sex is a HUGE turn on, having romantic-"in love" sex is just as important. But like wantItThicker stated, when your having sex, your concentrating on the energy at that moment and not worrying about whether or not the sex is perceived to be casual or romantic. Your just enjoying the sex.
Jen, you touched on something in your initial post that sort of hit home. You made reference to being divorced with kids and as most of you here know, that's me. And sometimes, I get so involved with being a dad and making sure that my kids' needs are being met, sometimes I forget the fact that I have a life myself and I have needs as well (i.e. sex!!). So, it's a point that has reminded me that I can't sacrifice my own life's needs and desires for those little people in my life (at least not all the time).
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