life after blowing your load

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  1. dwreck

    dwreck New Member

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    so when my lady and i are having sex, and i get my load off earlier than i anticipated it isnt uncommon for me to just suffer through the intenseness and keep it up after that intenseness has subsided.

    i've done this from time to time and from girl to girl for most of my sexually active life.

    the only problem is if i ever stop for more than a minute or two i get soft again. i really need that constant stimulation to keep me hard.

    so does anyone else here share my life after your load practices?
  2. 10

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    Your "after" period is called your refractory period...........the time from one orgasm to the next. Usually, you do get soft after you blow your load. For me it just depends on my level of arousal. If I'm really horny, after I blow a load, I'll remain rock hard for several minutes afterwards. And then there are times when I wasn't in the mood to begin with and after I spew, I go limp biscuit.

    I would say after you blow, keep on keeping on and see what happens. If she still wants to have sex and keep going, keep on truckin'.

  3. stranger

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    I find that after a quick session I can continue easily, but after a serious finish I'm out for at least 20 minutes.

    Like 10 said, it really depends on your level of arousal (and possibly BAC).
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    There was a time back when my ex and I were dating that I was house sitting for my boss at the time. My bosses husband had a porn stash in his night stand that she and I raided. Next thing I knew, we were in the guest bedroom fucking like a couple of rabbits. I don't know if it was the whole "strange place" thing going on or the excitement of doing the nasty in my bosses house but I blew 3-4 times within 20 minutes of each other. It was fucking AMAZING!
  5. dwreck

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    damn!

    normally one load is all i got.

    i can still go for as long as i feel the need to, but 3 loads in 20 min?
    there may have been gunpowder but i bet the load was small if not blank

    anyway i'll give kudos to that!
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    Believe me, I was completely amazed myself at the fact that I kept blowing load after load. All loads were healthy in size............my dick didn't "dry heave":wink:
  7. JonPop

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    Ha, cute. :smile:
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    Did ya like that?:wink:
  9. Loki

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    I did!! :LMAO
  10. deathinc

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    well let me give u some tips to extend the time period.
    first when u do sex and getting excited and about o loose ur load then befor that happen try to think something else in ur mind think of shit or what ever that turn u off and divert ur mind.
    ok when it un stoppable then become slow and put ur fingure on the pc muscle u know between dick and anus to stop the flow of ur sperm (or at least reduce it)
    so if u hav sperm inside then u can gain perform in quick time.

    I can perform normally 3-4 hours without cum and giving my partner around 15-20+ orgasm (when im in a mood of a demon)

    use ur tongue as a weapon to after giving her hardcore orgasms with ur tongue us ur dick then u dont need to dissapoint if u cum fast
  11. JonPop

    JonPop <B><font color="#CC9933">Senior Administrator</fon

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    deathinc. We don't say this often anymore, READ THE FORUM GUIDLINES! This has got to be in the top 5 of sloppy posting ever, on BetterMan. I got a headache from trying to read ur post.
  12. deathinc

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    No offence
    keep cool man .
  13. JonPop

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    I'll keep cool when you READ THE FORUM GUIDLINES

    Where are you from?
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  14. deathinc

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    can u give me the link for guidelines i searched all in FAQs all but i dont find the *GUIDLINES*

    Im from where this PM are made.
  15. bozoballz

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    What in the sam hill is this?!?

    Has any member on this board, in their whole life, EVER given a girl 20+ orgasms in one session? I call bullshit. If y'all have given 20+ orgasms then I apologize. 3-4 seems plenty sufficient. I would think the girl would start to slap your ass to cut it out after a while :a3:... I mean there is such a thing as too much of a good thing!

    This guy probably has a 13" dick too :rolleyes: :tongue:
  16. deathinc

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    buddy it has nothing to do with size (13+)coz if u all know girls pleasure point is not very deep inside.
    And u need to understand more about girl body (every girl body behaves differently).

    Let me till u this way otherwise u will think im showing off.

    scientifically-->why we finish after one or two cum --coz our sperm(also known as sexual energy) only cause to hav erection and excitement loose in intercourse and we r out coz our sexual energy is gone.

    Now with girl its totally different coz they dont loose anything except if u able to squrit them with g-spot orgasms (but this also dont cause in loosing any sexual energy) so what happen with girls ?
    actually they become tired because they hav to use lot of power in each orgasm and this tierdness cause them to finish in the bed.

    Now the only point is r u able to make the balance between their exhaustation and excitement (for every girl its different) because at some point she will force u not to touch her anymore but the thing how u able to manage that(do u still able continue or go out from bed)?

    and im not 13+ and since every one here is not hesitating about talking about his dick size then my is 6.1 inches ---hoping for 8+.

    PEACE
  17. JonPop

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    One more time deathinc. READ THE FORUM GUIDELINES!!

    http://www.betterman.com/announcements/announcements.html
    Last edited: Feb 6, 2008
  18. deathinc

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    Oh sorry
    Will there is no relaxation for non english speakers?
    my english is not very good:-(
    but I will respect the rules.
  19. southern tz

    southern tz Guest

    I don't think I want the 13 inches but I would take the 20 orgasms!:smile::tongue::wink:
  20. Marty5379

    Marty5379 <font color="#0066B8">Super Moderator Reserve</fon

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    I would be willing to bet that before the kids came along my wife would get close to 20 during our long and drawn out sexathons.

    However, there's a couple of things to understand here:

    1. Size of the cock ain't got nothing to do with it. Technique all the way. Of course, good size and technique are a plus.

    2. Women can have two types of orgasms - clitorial and vagina.

    My wife could have many, many, many clitorial orgasms - 20 would not have been unheard of in the early days. But since learning the vagina orgasm technique she does not mess around with clitorial orgasms as much. She says the clitorial feels excellent, but those vagina orgasms rock her world. She shakes like like hell, gets breathless, etc., sometimes almost passing out when it's just right. Best I remember the most vagina orgasms she's ever had in a sexathon is probably 3.

    So 20 clitorial orgasms is a possibility, but 20 vagina orgasms is probably unrealistic.