I bought a pump from Basic Essentials called The Best buy pump ,measures 8 inches long by 2.1 inches wide. I usually get a length of a average man I guess close to 7"long not sure on width but normal I guess nothing to brag about, I'm a grower not show'er. I upgraded the pump with a silicone donut instead of the plastic cone like sleeve it had and it's more comfortable now also added a pump with a gauge on it instead of the bulb pump it had. I don't get a chance to use it everyday so have been doing it a couple days a a week for about 5 minutes at 5lbs of pressure. I did try a little more just to see what it felt like and see the size I could get and got up to 20 lbs for a few seconds and released pressure and didn't want to hurt anything. It does look impressive to see it get huge inside there but after removing it the size doesn't stay long and is less fat and limp. I don't want a fat limp dick but a harder dick, a fatter and longer one would be nice too. I tried to jelg but I'm not sure I'm doing it right but it does make me horny,lol. I tried the rubber erection keeper they sell but it doesn't keep me hard at all. I slipped it on the end of the tube and pumped up and slipped it down on the base of my penis and then released the vacuum and my dick went limp not erect at all for penetration, I have managed to masturbate but it was just fat and limp mostly but it felt good to be fatter. most days afterward my skin at the base of my head is swollen ( circumcised ) and looks weird but after a couple days it looks normal again. I am about to throw everything away and give up. Is there any advice you guys can give me .